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don’t “hold space” for people, instead do this!
How often in conversation with someone can you feel yourself steering them in any direction?
Wanting them to see their power, wanting them to like you, wanting them to be positive, etc?
Isn’t it interesting how that energy has the opposite effect?
The more you want them to be positive, the more they go into their problems…
The more you want them to like you, the more you can feel yourself repelling them…
The more you want them to see their power, the more they go into victim mode and don’t…
Here is something I’ve learned from 9 years of coaching 1,000’s of people
And you can apply this in your life with friends, co-workers, etc
I’ve learned that for the coaching to be powerful…
I have to have NO AGENDA and be willing to go into the unknown
My job is to be present and to connect to the part of themselves that have the answers inside of them
I ran a live call on Monday in my 21 day challenge and while on it I could feel how the more present I am, the more the people become as a reflection
In that present energy people feel safe and connect to themselves where all the answers are
A few years ago I would have an agenda to “get people into their power” “see their patterns and let them go” “heal their shadows” etc
That energy infuses the belief that they aren’t whole the way they are and don’t have the power inside of themselves and need ME
People are either opening their hearts/energy or are in protection and closed/contracted
When YOU open, you allow others to open through state transference
It reminds me of when people talk about how how enlightened people would not see people as “sick” and in their presence they would be healed
Today's message of the day is to practice being present by accepting the moment as it is, and trusting that the people around you have the answers inside them
That belief will hold a frame for them that will allow them to tap into their own power
And in that energy you won’t take on responsibility for their energy too
Let me know in the comments below:
🔥What differences do you notice in people’s energy when you are present and in your own frame around them?
🔥Did you start the meditation that I shared in yesterday's post to keep you connected to the highest vibrational YOU?
Do it to set the frame and energy to wire in that version of YOU!
Talk to you soon,
Much love,
Aaron Doughty
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don’t “hold space” for people, instead do this!
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