I know someone who is very good at asking questions.
He often says,
“Really?”
“How so?”
“Can you give me an example?”
“What do you think?”
When I keep asking “Why?”, I often cannot find the answer I am really looking for.
His questions make people want to share more. They also make conversations feel more natural. This made me reflect on my own communication style.
Maybe I don’t always need more answers. Sometimes I need a better question. I am learning how to put my thoughts into words.