I don’t know if anyone else will be able to relate to this, but if you can, even one person, then I want to share this for you. For the last 20 years of my life, I’ve done what I thought I was supposed to do. I went to school, studied something I was good at, got a job in a field I had some background in, and went to work doing a job I knew I would be able to do. I don’t regret it, to be clear, because it’s all come together to get me to where I am today, but it took me wayyyy too long to figure out what >>I<< needed because I was so focused on what other people thought I needed… I did a good job. I even got raises, that felt good for a few weeks each time, but it was still *WORK* and I knew it, and it was a grind. After 3 years there, I was coasting. I’ve always heard the mantra that if you do what you love you’ll never work a day in your life, and I’ve always told people that’s what *they* should do, but I never actually extended the same courtesy to myself. I started a community last year and quickly grew it to 500 and then later 1,000. That was.. neat, nice, I was.. glad? But it wasn’t my dream, so when it came true, it wasn’t a dream come true, it was just another arbitrary “accomplishment” that gave me nothing inside myself. I am finally extending the kindness to myself that I have so long told others to do… and started my real community; the one I love, the one I’d happily do for free, the one I’m a part of and not just the admin over. It has no members, of course, and STILL it feels better knowing I’m doing it right than any 1,100 members in one I was doing for money.. I don’t have any monetary success, but it is already successful in making me feel like there is a real possibility I will get to love the work I do!! I joined wingman & the cohort yesterday, and it’s changed my life even before my first call 😂😅 because I’m doing Skool for me, for my real community now, not for money, so the success of setting up my about page IS a success, because success is no longer measured in $ the community generates for me. It, the community itself, is the reward. I feel like I have been blind to not understand this, but now I see.