๐“๐ก๐ž ๐”๐ฅ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐†๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ž๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐š๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ โ€” ๐…๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐š๐ง ๐„๐ฑ-๐ˆ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐š๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐‘๐ž๐œ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐–๐ก๐จ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ค๐ž ๐š๐ญ ๐‡๐š๐ซ๐ฏ๐š๐ซ๐
In front-office investment banking, who you know often matters as much as what you know.
๐‡๐ž๐ซ๐žโ€™๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐›๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐„๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ž ๐๐ซ๐ž-๐๐ž๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐‘๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐œ๐ก
Donโ€™t show up unprepared. Research each banker deeply, and know their recent deals and market views. Instead of generic questions, ask insightful specifics, e.g.: "๐˜ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜Ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ $35.9๐˜ฃ๐˜ฏ ๐˜’๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ข-๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ; ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ด-๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด?"
This signals genuine curiosity, commercial awareness, and makes you memorable.
2๏ธโƒฃ ๐€๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐œ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ก
Never start with โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ข ๐˜ซ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ.โ€ Lead with genuine interest in them: "๐˜๐˜ช ๐˜”๐˜ด. ๐˜š๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ, ๐˜โ€™๐˜ฎ ๐˜ข ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜บ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ˆ๐˜‰๐˜Š ๐˜›๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜๐˜—๐˜–โ€”๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ง ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ? ๐˜โ€™๐˜ฅ ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต๐˜ด."
During the chat, focus on their experiences, listen actively, and build rapport. Avoid asking favours too soon. Bankers remember candidates who truly connect.
3๏ธโƒฃ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ
Networking isnโ€™t transactionalโ€”itโ€™s relational. Regularly stay in touch by:
โ€ข Sending prompt thank-you notes highlighting a specific insight.
โ€ข Sharing relevant articles or updates.
โ€ข Congratulating their successes. Consistent, thoughtful engagement builds trust. A Morgan Stanley VP noted a studentโ€™s intelligent follow-ups transformed a cold email into a personal recommendation.
4๏ธโƒฃ ๐‹๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐†๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ
Earn your ask. When the time is right, tactfully seek guidance: "๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ; ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ด ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜‘๐˜—๐˜”๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ธ๐˜ด? ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜Š๐˜ ๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต." This respectful approach often naturally leads to referrals without being presumptuous. Senior bankers appreciate humility and tactful ambition.
๐‘บ๐’•๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’„ ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Œ๐’†๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’š
Elite networking is not about accumulating contacts โ€” it is about engineering credibility, relevance, and advocacy. When you demonstrate commercial fluency, genuine curiosity, and executive presence, bankers stop viewing you as a student seeking help and start seeing you as a future colleague. That shift โ€” from transactional outreach to relationship capital โ€” is what converts conversations into referrals.
Which step do you struggle with most: Research, outreach, nurturing, or leveraging?
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๐“๐ก๐ž ๐”๐ฅ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐†๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ž๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐š๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ โ€” ๐…๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐š๐ง ๐„๐ฑ-๐ˆ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐š๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐‘๐ž๐œ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐–๐ก๐จ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ค๐ž ๐š๐ญ ๐‡๐š๐ซ๐ฏ๐š๐ซ๐
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