In front-office investment banking, who you know often matters as much as what you know.
๐๐๐ซ๐โ๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ ๐ง๐๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ:
1๏ธโฃ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ ๐๐ซ๐-๐๐๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ก
Donโt show up unprepared. Research each banker deeply, and know their recent deals and market views. Instead of generic questions, ask insightful specifics, e.g.: "๐ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ท๐ช๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ $35.9๐ฃ๐ฏ ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ท๐ข-๐๐ข๐ณ๐ด ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ; ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฐ๐ด๐ด-๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ๐ด?"
This signals genuine curiosity, commercial awareness, and makes you memorable.
2๏ธโฃ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ก
Never start with โ๐ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ข ๐ซ๐ฐ๐ฃ.โ Lead with genuine interest in them: "๐๐ช ๐๐ด. ๐๐ฎ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ, ๐โ๐ฎ ๐ข ๐ซ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข๐ต ๐๐ข๐ณ๐ท๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ ๐ง๐ข๐ด๐ค๐ช๐ฏ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐บ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ค๐ฉ ๐๐๐โ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ข ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ง ๐ค๐ข๐ญ๐ญ? ๐โ๐ฅ ๐ท๐ข๐ญ๐ถ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐ต๐ด."
During the chat, focus on their experiences, listen actively, and build rapport. Avoid asking favours too soon. Bankers remember candidates who truly connect.
3๏ธโฃ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ
Networking isnโt transactionalโitโs relational. Regularly stay in touch by:
โข Sending prompt thank-you notes highlighting a specific insight.
โข Sharing relevant articles or updates.
โข Congratulating their successes. Consistent, thoughtful engagement builds trust. A Morgan Stanley VP noted a studentโs intelligent follow-ups transformed a cold email into a personal recommendation.
4๏ธโฃ ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ
Earn your ask. When the time is right, tactfully seek guidance: "๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ท๐ช๐ค๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ท๐ข๐ญ๐ถ๐ข๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ; ๐ข๐ฏ๐บ ๐ต๐ช๐ฑ๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฎ๐บ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐๐๐๐ฐ๐ณ๐จ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ท๐ช๐ฆ๐ธ๐ด? ๐๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐บ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐๐ ๐ช๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต." This respectful approach often naturally leads to referrals without being presumptuous. Senior bankers appreciate humility and tactful ambition.
๐บ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ป๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
Elite networking is not about accumulating contacts โ it is about engineering credibility, relevance, and advocacy. When you demonstrate commercial fluency, genuine curiosity, and executive presence, bankers stop viewing you as a student seeking help and start seeing you as a future colleague. That shift โ from transactional outreach to relationship capital โ is what converts conversations into referrals.
Which step do you struggle with most: Research, outreach, nurturing, or leveraging?