Purpose: A firm, neutral message for redirecting emotional, chaotic, or accusatory communication into structure and documentation — without feeding the drama. Option 1 — Redirect to the App (Strong & Neutral) “Hi, for clarity and consistency, I’m only responding to child-related communication that is calm, respectful, and on topic. If you need to discuss something, please send it through OFW in a concise, factual format so I can respond appropriately. I won’t engage in emotional conversations outside that structure.” Option 2 — When They Send a Chaotic Paragraph “I’m not able to respond meaningfully to messages written in this tone. If there’s a specific child-related issue that needs attention, please restate it calmly on OFW and I will respond.” Option 3 — When They Try to Pull You Into an Argument “I’m not available for argument or back-and-forth. If there’s a parenting decision to discuss, please present the information and the specific question on OFW.” Option 4 — When They Accuse, Blame, or Twist “I don’t engage with accusatory messages. If there’s a child-focused concern you’d like to address, please outline the facts and the request clearly in OFW. I’ll respond once the communication is appropriate.” Option 5 — When They Try to Control Your Time or Pressure You “I won’t respond to pressured or time-sensitive messages outside our agreed communication channels. Please send any necessary details through OFW so everything stays documented and clear.” Why this “Text My Ex” works: - It’s calm. - It’s unreactive. - It avoids JADEing (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain). - It documents your reasonable behavior. - It forces them into structure or exposes their refusal to communicate appropriately. - It reinforces the boundary without escalation.

Boundary: “I will not participate in conversations that create chaos, confusion, or emotional overwhelm. I only engage in communication that is calm, clear, and focused on our child’s needs.” What this means in practice: - I don’t match your urgency when it isn’t urgent. - I don’t respond to accusations, name-calling, or pressure. - I don’t stay in conversations that escalate instead of resolve. - I prioritize clarity over conflict, facts over feelings, and structure over chaos. - I treat communication like a business exchange — because co-parenting is one. Why this boundary matters: High-conflict co-parenting thrives on emotional reactions. Your job isn’t to fix their behavior — it’s to regulate your response. This boundary helps you: ✔ Protect your nervous system ✔ Reduce unnecessary back-and-forth ✔ Build a documented pattern of calm, reasonable communication ✔ Model emotional safety for the child ✔ Shift the power dynamic away from conflict and toward structure

We’ve had 4 amazing people join us in the last 24 hours — I’m so happy you’re here. 💛 This space is for clarity, support, and real-life strategies that actually make co-parenting easier. Feel free to introduce yourselves, ask questions, or just settle in and observe — there’s no pressure here. You’re in a community that gets it, and you’re not doing this alone. Welcome, truly. 🌿✨

Okay okay. We are SO serious in here. Sometimes I do like to have a little fun.. and belly laughs are actually therapeutic (it's science). Let’s play a game: Describe your coparenting (OR just straight up parenting) style using only a GIF or emoji. No explanations—just vibes. 😅 Ready… go! 👇