Growing up, my dad wasn’t what you’d call a fisherman — at least, not in the traditional sense.
But a few times a year, he’d gather our family together, pack up the tackle box, and head to a local fishing spot. The first few times we went, I hated it. It was too early in the morning; there was always too much to learn. Plus, there were things that felt so uncomfortable, like sticking my hands in a bucket of slimy minnows or trying to get a hook out of a wriggling fish, that made me want to run back to bed.
But something shifted as we kept going. I began to realize that the real reason my dad took us fishing wasn’t just to catch fish. It was about the experience, the drive to the lake, the quiet moments of waiting, and the conversations that happened while we watched the water. Even when we didn’t catch anything, there was this sense of connection, presence, and peace. And on the drive home, even though we were often tired and sunburned, my dad was so happy that he’d created an experience for us. That joy was the real catch.
Years later, I find myself thinking of manifesting in terms of fishing. Manifesting, setting an intention, and aligning with it aren’t about forcing an outcome or always getting what you want right away.
It’s about preparing your equipment (your mind, your beliefs, your energy) and putting yourself in the right place (the environment where opportunities can find you).
It’s about casting your line, setting your intention, and then relaxing into a state of active, curious awareness.
Just like fishing, there’s a time to wait and watch — to trust that things are happening beneath the surface, even if you can’t see them yet. And when the nibble comes, that little sign that your manifestation is close, you set the hook, commit to your dream, and bring it in with confidence.
And just like my dad taught me, sometimes you catch and release; you catch the vision, the insight, the opportunity, and then you let go of the expectation or the attachment, trusting that the next catch is already on its way.
Manifesting is less about the fish and more about who you become in the process. It’s about the connection, the joy, and the presence that happens when you show up fully, even if it’s a little uncomfortable at first. Just like those early mornings with my dad, it’s a practice that invites you to grow, to trust, and to celebrate the journey — not just the result.
Let's break it down a bit more:
Step 1: The Decision to Go Fishing
First, you decide you want to fish, or, in manifesting terms, you decide what you want to experience or call in. This is where you get clear about your desire:
- “I want to grow my business.”
- “I want more financial flow.”
- “I want peace and clarity.”
It’s important to choose the experience, not just the outcome. You’re going because you love the experience of fishing, not because you have to catch a fish to feel successful.
Step 2: The Preparation
Next, you gather the right equipment:
- The rod, the bait, the tackle box. In manifesting, this is where you align your energy, clear blocks, and make sure your subconscious is prepared to receive. You might use tools like The One Command®, journaling, or a belief-clearing process.
Step 3: Go to the Right Place
You don’t cast your line in the desert. You choose a spot where the fish are likely to be. This is your environment:
- Are you putting yourself in spaces that align with your vision?
- Are you taking inspired action that places you in proximity to opportunity?
Step 4: Casting the Line
You throw your line into the water — this is the act of setting the intention. You’ve done the work, you’re aligned, and now you’ve made the choice. This is the commitment to the outcome, backed by faith.
Step 5: Relaxed, Active Awareness
Once your line is in the water, you enter a state of relaxed awareness. You’re not constantly yanking on the rod; you’re trusting the process. You might be enjoying the scenery, having a conversation, or simply breathing in the beauty around you — but a part of your awareness is acutely attuned to the subtle signals that something is happening.
This is the state of being open to receive, without anxious attachment. You’re aware, alert, but not forcing.
Step 6: Feeling the Nibble
Suddenly, you feel that first nibble — a sign from the universe, an intuitive hit, or an opportunity that aligns with your intention. This is your moment to engage:
- Trust yourself.
- Take inspired action.
- Follow the energy.
Step 7: Setting the Hook
When you feel the nibble, you set the hook. You commit fully to the experience. In manifesting, this might look like signing up for a course, saying yes to an opportunity, or stepping into a new role with confidence.
Step 8: Catch (and Release)
Once you’ve caught your fish — the manifestation or the vision — you hold it with gratitude. But here’s the magic: you also release the expectation of how it must look or what it means about you. This is catch and release. You celebrate the experience without clinging to it.
- You catch the vision — you see it and feel it.
- You release the need to control every detail — you let the universe work its magic.
Key Takeaways
- Intention is both an act of choice and an act of trust.
- Preparation matters — you need the right mindset and tools.
- Relaxed awareness is key — you stay open to signs and signals without forcing.
- Gratitude and release — you appreciate the experience and trust the next catch is on its way.
Closing Thought
Fishing teaches us that manifestation is a dance between doing and being — between action and allowing. When you hold your intention lightly but firmly, you create the perfect conditions for magic to happen.