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📌 Pinned Resource Post – Your CYC Toolbox
🐬In this community, results come to the resourceful. The more you use the tools, the faster you grow. The difference between stuck and unstoppable isn’t talent... it’s how well you apply what’s already in your hands. Below are five essential documents to jumpstart your self choice journey: 1️⃣ The Foundation Document – Breaks down the Five Pillars and walks you step-by-step to build your own full and mini foundation. 2️⃣ Story | Gift | Passion | Purpose | Innercise – Learn how to extract meaning from your story and develop your purpose from within. 3️⃣ CYC Branch Leader Onboarding – Everything you need to start leading your own branch. 4️⃣ CYC Branch Leader Essentials – Systems, mindset, and structure to grow your branch with impact. 5️⃣ GRROW Formula - a reflection guide for our accountability partner check ins. 📚Book: Choose Yourself to be Chosen by Hakeem Bourne Mcfarlane 🎙 Podcast: Choose Your SOUL show Hosted by Hakeem and Co host (Alysia) 🧢 Merch : Choose Yourself Shop 💡 Save this post. Use these tools. Build your foundation. Lead with purpose. See You EVERY SINGLE Tuesday Chooseday at 10AM EST 🫡🐬 Hakeem
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JULY 26th CYC NYC MEET AND GROW
Hey family … we’re locking in plans and headcount for our first of many NYC CYC meet and grow!🐬 Saturday, July 26th and we’d love for you to come meet the fam in person ! 📍 12 PM — Central Park Meetup Family-friendly! Bring your kids, your partner, your good vibes… let’s chill, connect, and grow. 🍣 7 PM — Flame Hibachi Dinner Midtown East We’re taking over Flame Hibachi for dinner and good energy. The $50 reservation includes: 🌟One full dinner (choice of 2 items) 🌟One cocktail or mocktail (Revel Spirits included with dinner) 🌟Access to our private after-dinner party 🔥 20% Fun After-Party! After-dinner Revel cocktails sponsored by Flame Hibachi & Revel Spirits. Anything else you want to drink, just cover your own tab. ✅ $50 covers it all (one dinner, one drink, after-party Revel cocktails). 📅 RSVP by Tuesday so I can lock in our dinner reservation. Drop me your name + number of guests or let me know if you can’t make it — let’s make this a night to remember!
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Download the CYGG ebook
Self choosers! Please tap into the link below to download the Choose Yourself Growth Guide ebook and use the code CYCFORLIFE https://stan.store/bigdreamhakeem This will be our foundational material for our check ins with the CYC ‼️ We will be reviewing the first 2 chapters tomorrow: 1. The salience network 2. Taking back control We will set goals at the end of the session and also have a live Q&A for anyone looking for personal advice. In preparation for the check-in, please be ready to provide interests, concerns, clarifications, feedback, opinions and questions so we can all contribute during our session with an open mind and an active heart. 🧠❤️‍🔥💪🏽 I made the chapters short so that most of the depth comes from our conversations within our community. I’m excited to grow with y’all!
A challenge in the challenge
🔥 Day 13 of the Challenge and for some of us, even deeper than that. The cravings are quieter, the systems are stronger, and the discipline is showing up in ways we didn’t even expect. 🐬 This weekend, I challenge you to add a challenge to the Challenge. Step into a space where you normally lean on a vice and prove to yourself you don’t need it. ☕ Hit a coffee shop and skip the latte : drink water, eat some eggs, and enjoy the vibe without the jitters. 🎉 Go out with your friends sober : dance harder, laugh louder, and remember the night fully. 🎶 Show up to an event without “pre-gaming” with weed : prove your presence is enough to enjoy it. 📺 Watch a movie without snacks : sit in the story, not the sugar. 🍝 Go to dinner without ordering a drink : taste the food like you actually have taste buds. The point isn’t to punish yourself….it’s to discover how much of the fun was always you, not the crutch. 💡 Novelty rewires the brain faster than routine. Every time we prove we can enjoy life without a vice, we rewire dopamine to reward presence instead of poison. So this weekend, flip the script. Add a challenge to your Challenge. Show yourself that freedom doesn’t come from vices, it comes from choosing yourself. If the cravings get loud, remember what it will feel like when you show up to Tuesday Chooseday and are able to share your win! 💬 What’s one thing you’ll do this weekend, vice-free, to prove to yourself that you were always the main event? 🫡🐬 Hakeem
The Four Anchors of LIFE ⚓️
⏳ Time, presence, faith, and foundation : the four anchors that keep us steady long enough to see our blessings arrive. 🐬 The temptation when things feel uncertain is to get frantic, to numb out, to fall back into the very vices we said we’d let go.. but blessings don’t bloom overnight. Seeds need time, roots need depth, and storms need patience to pass. 💡 Our brains are wired with a negativity bias, meaning stress makes us over-focus on threats and under-notice opportunities. That’s why building a foundation gives our nervous system the calm to actually see the good when it comes. (Foundation course available now in classroom tabun SKOOL app) 📖 As Marcus Aurelius said: “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” Even our struggles are shaping us to receive what’s meant for us. 🙏 “Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” — Martin Luther King Jr. So don’t block your blessings by running back to comfort when things feel heavy. Stay focused on the prize, stay present with your intention, and trust that the time you invest in your foundation is the very soil your blessings are rooting in. 💬 What blessing might already be growing in your life that you’ve been too frantic to notice? Enjoy your weekend - 🫡🐬 Hakeem
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