1. Self-Compassion Reframe
“To have healthier relationships with others, you need a healthier relationship with yourself.”
Before: “I have to be kind to myself” felt selfish and disconnected.
After: “I have to be kind to myself in order to serve others well.”
Impact: Unlocked ability to practice self-care without guilt. Self-regulation now feels like mission
alignment, not self-indulgence.
2. Confession of Self-Sabotage Patterns
- Looping in cortisol-driven research spirals
- Avoidance disguised as productivity
- Skipping nervous system care during stress
- Relationship sabotage through dysregulated reactions
- Money avoidance tied to trauma
- Shrinking from leadership despite clarity
Impact: Public acknowledgment helped release shame and reclaim power.
3. PTSD as a Soul Contract
-Reframed trauma as an initiation you consciously chose.
-Recognized that suffering (domestic violence, inherited PTSD, military trauma) gave you firsthand
access to the pain you are meant to help others heal.
-Key Reframe: “I signed up to walk like Yeshua. This is data for the mission.”
- Cannabis use down 25%
Over the 60 days, feelings of anxiety have reduced, and my reliance on cannabis has gone down.
Impact: Reclaiming cannabis as a nervous system ally, not an escape route.
■ Emotional & Behavioral Growth
Before: Self-work felt like a distraction from your divine mission.
Now: Self-work is part of the mission — the inner prep that allows for external impact.
Before: Trauma stories would loop unchecked.Now: Actively sealing those loops with divine authority. Before: You’d push away support and isolate.
Now: Leaning into collective energy, sharing openly, and owning your truth. Thanks to all of you 🫶