Be Bigger Than Your Problems
Lately on social media I've seen people complaining about how many people are two missed paychecks away from being homeless. Could be one medical emergency, one blown transmission, one major problem, and you're done. But when I think about millionaires and billionaires, it occurs to me that they also are one big problem away from being in the same situation. A $10,000,000 surprise to a millionaire is just as heavy as a $1000 surprise to a hundredaire. The thing is, you don't hear about it as often. And I think it's because the people in the higher echelons of earning power are bigger than their problems. It's not that the problems don't happen. Believe me, they do. I've got some friends in those categories and when they tell me the challenges they have it almost makes ME want to barf. The difference is, they're bigger than their problems. They know they don't have to sit there and take the hit. They know they can move. Pivot. Dance. Build. Expand. Grow. It's still a big problem but they're bigger than that problem, and they know they can grow past it, and in fact, even use it as fuel to get them to the next level. There's a mental shift that comes when you've been in business for a bit. You become tougher without sacrificing your humanity. You don't become emotionless, but you know that they're tools that are meant to serve you, and not you serving them. You know that fear is a signal for action, not something that keeps you buried and feeling overwhelmed. You know that anger is meant for you, not for others, and that any anger that comes up is about a situation and never about a person. The bigger you are compared to the problems, the bigger the problems are that you can handle. But eventually you can become bigger than any problem. That's when business gets fun :) Are you getting bigger than your problems? How's the growth been going?