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Titus 3 reminds believers to be peaceable, gentle, and to show every consideration to all people. Not just the ones who think like you. Not just the ones who live like you. Not just the ones who vote like you. Not just the ones who make your convictions feel comfortable. Biblical kindness does not have a line that says, “Be kind only when we agree.” That's not Christianity. That's tribalism. A Christian can fully disagree with someone’s lifestyle, choices, values, and moral beliefs… and still treat that person with dignity, patience, and decency. Because that is exactly what Scripture says. Too many people think there are only two options: Approve everything or hate the person That is a lie from Satan himself. You do not have to celebrate sin in order to be kind. You do not have to endorse sin to show a kind heart. You do not have to attend, fund, promote, or vote for something that violates your convictions in order to treat people like human beings made in the image of God. That includes the LGBTQ community. I can be kind. I can be respectful. I can speak without mockery and disdain. I can refuse cruelty, sarcasm, and personal hatred. And at the same time, I can still say: I will not support programs that promotes that lifestyle. I will not attend their weddings. I will not donate money to causes that advance it. That is not a contradiction. That is having both conviction and self-control. The modern world wants to force Christians into a dishonest choice. Either affirm everything Or be labeled unloving. This is especially prevalent since Charlie Kirks passing. But Scripture never defines love as moral surrender. Titus 3 calls Christians to show gentleness to all. That means humility. That means remembering who we were apart from God. That means dealing with people patiently, not arrogantly. But humility does not mean abandoning truth. Kindness is about how you treat people. Agreement is about what you believe. Those are not the same thing.

Long-lasting marriage is built on the little things… Too often women focus on the right things, but get them out of order. When working with couples, I am always surprised at how many small opportunities get missed. Then when marriage starts to feel boring, people assume they are “not in love” anymore… when really they just got too wrapped up in life and slowly stopped engaging with their spouse. A happy marriage requires effort. It requires creativity. And it requires intention if you want it to thrive for years to come. So today, I encourage you to take notes on your spouse. Literally write it down if you need to. Write down the things they do that you appreciate. Get curious about their dreams. Lean into their world. You will start to notice something… The qualities you loved in the beginning are still there. And the things you uncover now? They are new, interesting, and worth discovering. Then turn it into a daily habit. Put your head down and do the work. Your marriage is worth it. 💜 And yes… I am talking to myself too.

Sometimes supporting your husband looks like this: “Honey, I know you’re going to make the right decision.” “You are amazing at that.” “There is no one I’d rather be with.” “I appreciate the late nights and early mornings you spend praying for guidance.” Because we are not men… we do not fully understand the weight and stress our husbands feel every. darn. day. And no, it’s not because we can’t understand — it’s because God made us different. Ladies, I encourage you to verbally show your respect for your husband. He needs it. 💜