Every Friday, this thread is for the thing that has you stuck. Maybe it's a routine that keeps falling apart, a skill your child just isn't getting, or a battle you're tired of fighting. Thanksgiving is three weeks away, so if a holiday trip or a house full of relatives is already on your mind, that counts too. Post your stuck spot below. Tell us a little about your child and what you've already tried. I'll be in the comments this weekend, and other parents here have probably been through it too. Nothing's too small or too messy to share. Anything that doesn't get solved here, bring it to the live Q&A on November 24.