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.... hahaha - got ya GenX'ers!!!! 😆 <<Friday Funny for you>>
No we are not going to talk about that. But what we can talk about is... Valentine's Day and our Love Languages. Even if you are not a fan of this holiday, roll with me...
Understanding our Love Languages is important for soul development because it helps us love with awareness instead of expectation - and receive love without misinterpreting it.
We don’t personally celebrate Valentine’s Day - but I can absolutely see the beauty in it from a soul-to-soul level. So instead of flowers + pressure, let’s decode love a little. (And giving love back the way that fills others love buckets.)
Inspired by The 5 Love Languages - the idea is simple: We embody all five love languages…but most of us have a Top 1 and Top 2 we naturally default to.
  • Words of Affirmation
  • Quality Time
  • Acts of Service
  • Physical Touch
  • Gifts
✨ Astrology Decoder Version
Look at Venus in your birth chart (sign + house). Venus (the planet of Love AND the ruling planet of Friday - see the connection?!?) shows how you love and what fills your “love bucket.”
Examples:
• Venus in Libra → thoughtful gifts + intentional quality time (romance matters)
• Venus in Sagittarius → experiences over things - memories = love fuel
🧠 Human Behavior Decoder Version
Watch what people naturally do for you - that’s usually their love language.
  • Compliments your outfit? → Words of Affirmation
  • Cooks for you + cuddles? → Acts of Service + Physical Touch
  • Plans time together? → Quality Time
The KEY: We often give love the way we most want to receive it. But others may not understand that and instead give love the way the want to recieve it. See how that works?!?
P.S. This applies to everyone - partners, kids, friends, coworkers.
P.S.S. Decoding human behavior is absolutely my jam - can you tell? 😄
Poll Time: What is your #1 Love Language?
EXTRA BONUS POINTS: In comments, can you guess my #1 and #2?
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
Gifts
I have no idea, let me think about this one for a minute...
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