Over the years I’ve been working on myself in many ways including when I am with another person and something about them really makes me angry. I don’t get angry very often but I’m human and we are offered all the emotions as human - the art is to decode them (in my opinion).
The art of decoding for me is - what is it about them that irks me or irritates me or makes me upset? Sometimes it’s their action. Sometimes it’s something within me that I’m not a fan of - typically my younger egoic self that climbed ladders and thought she was always right (but later realizing I was trying to prove I could do anything against all odds - which actually we can…but I’ll digress)… and sometimes I look at their 8 year old self to see what they may have missed out on as a child thus now as a grown person is projecting it out.
So I came across this perspective this morning… same concept but in reverse. I’ve never thought of this!
What if what the beauty we see in something or someone is the beauty we see in ourselves - but don’t recognize?
Hopefully this conveys..no coffee yet… ☕️
What are your thoughts?