๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ ๐‘บ๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐‘ช๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’…๐’‚๐’š - ๐‘บ๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’†๐’” ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ฏ๐’‚๐’” ๐‘ถ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“ ๐‘ท๐’๐’‚๐’๐’” ๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ
Good morning, beautiful souls! ๐Ÿ’œ
I'm checking in from a different place than I expected to be this Saturday morning. Last night instead of posting our evening reflection, I found myself in the emergency room - and I want to share what happened because I know some of you might relate.
Yesterday I signed divorce papers. Now, I haven't seen my ex-husband in 8 years, so logically, this should have felt like just paperwork, ๐“ป๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ฑ๐“ฝ? But my body had other plans.
The combination of this emotional milestone, my ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€, and navigating ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ created the perfect storm for a major anxiety attack that sent me straight to the ER. My body was telling me that even when our minds think we're "over" something, our nervous systems might still be processing.
๐‘ฏ๐’†๐’“๐’†'๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐‘ฐ ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’๐’†๐’… (๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’‚๐’Š๐’): Sometimes self-care looks like bubble baths and face masks. And sometimes it looks like advocating for yourself in a hospital, recognizing when your body is overwhelmed, and asking for help when you need it. (I am positive my lawyer was not happy that I ๐Ÿคฎ in his car ๐Ÿ˜ž)
Real Self-Care Saturday looks like:
๐™ƒ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ค๐™™๐™ฎ'๐™จ ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™š - even when it surprises you
๐˜ผ๐™จ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ - from medical professionals, family, friends
๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™œ๐™ช๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฉ - your nervous system is doing important work
๐™‚๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ก๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™ž๐™จ๐™๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ - whatever feels healing right now
๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™› - especially during big life transitions
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Your Saturday invitation
What does self-care look like for YOU today? Not what it "should" look like, but what your body, heart, and soul actually need right now.
Maybe you're also navigating
  • Hormonal changes that affect your emotional responses
  • Old wounds that surprise you with their intensity
  • The need to rest after your body has been in survival mode
  • Simply breathing through whatever life has handed you
๐™Ž๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™—๐™š๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ž๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก ๐™˜๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™ค:
How are you caring for yourself today?
What does your body need?
What would feel most loving right now?
Remember, friend - ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ญ๐™ž๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฎ ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™ข๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™š๐™–๐™ . Seeking help doesn't make you broken. Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is listen when our body says "I need support." ๐Ÿ’œ
Your well-being matters. You matter. All of you - the strong parts and the tender parts.
Taking it one gentle moment at a time,
๐“๐“น๐“ป๐“ฒ๐“ต ๐“™๐“ธ๐”‚ ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒน
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๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ ๐‘บ๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐‘ช๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’…๐’‚๐’š - ๐‘บ๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’•๐’Š๐’Ž๐’†๐’” ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐‘ฏ๐’‚๐’” ๐‘ถ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“ ๐‘ท๐’๐’‚๐’๐’” ๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ
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