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Sep 2 •
It’s interactive. It’s experiential. It’s meant to be moved through, not just consumed.
I keep thinking about how many of us know a lot about emotions and still don’t really know what to do when one hits. We can understand the pattern. We can explain why we react the way we do. We can read the books, listen to the podcasts, have the insight. And then something happens. Someone says the wrong thing. We feel rejected. Scared. Angry. Hurt. Overwhelmed. Suddenly all that understanding is nowhere to be found. That gap is what Emotional Surfing: Riding the Waves of Emotion is about. Not getting rid of emotions. Not becoming calmer, nicer, more positive, or less affected. It’s about learning how to be with what is actually happening before the story takes over. What am I sensing in my body? What emotion is here? What might it be telling me? What do I usually do when this emotion shows up? Do I run, shut down, prove, push away, hold on, disappear? And is there enough space here for one different move? That’s the work. Because emotion is not the problem. The wave is the wave. What changes everything is learning how I ride it. I built Emotional Surfing: Riding the Waves of Emotion because I needed something I could actually use in real life. Not just something that made sense while I was reading it. It’s interactive. It’s experiential. It’s meant to be moved through, not just consumed. And honestly, the part I love most is that it isn’t asking anyone to become someone else. It’s helping us notice what is already happening inside us with enough clarity to have a little more choice. The beta is still open for a bit longer while life has me on a detour and I finish some coursework. If you’ve been curious about it, this is probably the window. Because I don’t think most of us need more information about emotions. I think we need a way to meet them when they actually arrive.
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Aug 26 •
Here is an overview of section 1, module 1-5
Section 1 is the Foundations section. It’s really the part where the framework begins teaching people how to notice what is happening inside before they try to change anything. The foundation is learning to separate what can feel like one big emotional event into pieces: what the body is sensing, what emotion is moving, and what story the mind begins building around it. From there, the work becomes naming what is actually here, reading capacity in the moment, and choosing one move instead of reacting from the whole wave at once. It also introduces one of the distinctions I think matters most: feeling an emotion is not the same thing as feeding it. Feeling keeps us in contact with what is actually happening. Feeding pulls us into the looping, meaning-making, proving, predicting, rehearsing part of the experience. So Section 1 isn’t really about getting better at controlling emotions. It’s about building enough emotional fluency to recognize what’s happening while it’s happening. Name it. Read it. Choose one move. That becomes the ground everything else in Emotional Surfing: Riding the Waves of Emotion builds on. https://speechify.app.link/uIfr1A2cV5b
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Aug 6 •
interactive introduction
I’ve been trying to explain Emotional Surfing for a while now, and the truth is, it makes more sense when you can experience it for yourself. So I created a free interactive introduction. It takes you through one real moment, not the biggest thing you are carrying, but something you have enough room to look at. You will notice what is moving in your body, listen for what the emotion may be telling you, look at what it wants you to do, and choose one move that fits the capacity you have right now. This is for those moments when you understand your patterns and still get pulled into them. You are not trying to fix yourself or become less emotional. You are learning how to stay with what is moving long enough to read it before it makes the next decision for you. The message may be real. The method may be old. This is one small turn through the Emotional Surfing framework. Name it. Read it. Choose one move. The free interactive introduction is here: https://emotionalsurfingintro.netlify.app/
Sep 18 •
Just Surfing awareness!
riding the waves - methods shifting and taking in all the beautiful colors/emotions of the canvas that teach and support me - each soul a unique pallet and one of a kind work of art! Module 4 (half way thru) 🌊🏄🏻♂️
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Thank you
I want to take a minute to say thank you to everyone who has reached out, checked on me, sent love, offered support, or just quietly held me from a distance. I haven’t had the capacity to respond to every message in the way I normally would, so please bear with me. I’m reading them. I’m feeling them. And they matter more than you probably know. Yesterday I went shoe shopping with a girlfriend and could not find one pair that felt good on my feet. Such a small thing, but suddenly it was just too much. She looked at me and said, “It’s going to be okay. It’s just shoes.” And I needed that. Not because the shoes were the problem, but because sometimes something tiny is where all the overwhelm finally shows itself. Holding space for other people as they’ve moved through hard things has been such an honor in my life, and I think knowing what that has meant for me has made it easier to let other people hold space for me now. I don’t have to explain every detail or keep going back into the whole story in order to feel what I’m feeling. Sometimes I can name what is here, stay with the emotion, and let it move without feeding it with every detail of what happened. Sometimes I still get pulled back into the story because the urge is strong and the feelings are real. But I can notice it now. I can come back. I can let someone sit beside me without needing them to fix it or make it make sense. And to those of you who have told me that my work has gotten you through some really challenging moments, I keep thinking about that too. You’re right. It is powerful work, and right now I am so incredibly grateful that I have it. In so many ways, the life I’ve been living has felt like a fairytale. Not because it was perfect, but because it was a life I once could hardly have imagined for myself. Love, adventure, home, community, travel, possibility. A life we created together that felt really special to me. And now that story has taken a very hard turn. Was it real? Yes. Was it beautiful? Yes. Am I grateful for it? Absolutely.
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