A few years ago I stopped taking male clients. The reason was simple: repeatedly, instead of professional requests I received sexualized messages and boundary-crossing propositions. About 70% of incoming “requests” are sexual in nature, not therapeutic. So let me be crystal clear: If you are here to fantasize, flirt, or seek intimacy with a therapist - leave now. I will not tolerate it Nor waste my time. Maybe you wonder Why they do it? • Confusion of care and sexuality — some men cannot separate being cared for from being a sexual opportunity. • Erotic transference acted out — instead of reflecting on projections, they act on them. • Objectification — female professionals are reduced to sexual objects rather than respected for their expertise. • Avoidance through fantasy — turning therapy into a sexual outlet to escape real vulnerability and shame. And yes — online anonymity lowers inhibition, but many men behave this way offline too. The pattern is real. ‼️ If you’re here to project fantasies — you’re not ready for therapy and you don’t belong in this community.‼️ ‼️ Community note: If you receive similar messages — screenshot, block, report, and DM me. We will document and act. This space is a professional, boundaried container. Respect it or leave. I also know that most people on Skool are different. You’re here to grow, to exchange ideas, to support each other, not to cross boundaries. That’s why I chose this platform, I believe in creating a space where conversations are real, respectful, and transformative. And I’m grateful to everyone who’s part of that. ❤️

I noticed a bunch of curious new people just joined this little kinky corner of skool and I’m so happy you’re here! 🖤 If we haven’t met yet.. Nice to meet you! I’m Irina. I’m a psychologist and sexologist, and I love talking about things that make most people blush or freeze. 🥶 🫣 This community is all about honest, sometimes spicy conversations about sex, power, intimacy, identity all the stuff that makes us human. Feel totally free to be yourself here. Share or even overshare, here we dont have judgement and also maybe your story will help to find answers to some our folks in the community. 💬 If you feel like it, drop a comment below: – What brought you here? – What topics are you dying to explore? I’m so excited to have you here, lets connect 🤍 P.S. If you've been secretly thinking about working with a psychologist but kept postponing. I’m offering a few free diagnostic calls this week. DM me or check the pinned post for the link.