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Relationship You Deserve ICF Certified Coach - TASKING
This post is ONLY for those currently on the Relationship You Deserve ICF Certified Coach Journey Anything you need, we are here for you. This post is to help you track your journey. Ask any questions that you need help with. Use this same post so it's easier for us to help you. Tasking is the pinned post in the updated each week
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- Week 18   - Build out your list of stories – post in the group - Track time – post in the group  3 – days 1. Story of Limitation Interaction with my mom is ridiculous She does kind things but that’s not what she’s doing it for She does stuff like that to hold it over my head 2. Story of Limitation You (mom) should be able to handle those conversations and realize I’m not upset with you A child should be able to have these conversation when they are grown I’m not willing to just be ok with her not wanting to dive deep into that (emotion) This is emotion but not necessarily anger 3. Story of Limitation Anxiety in Public Conversations or interacting with co workers I get anxious and overwhelmed and overthink it I am pretty good in public interactions Sometimes I get in my own way I allow myself to not be the person I know I want 4. Limiting Beliefs I’m a scapegoat for the things that have happened in her life I don’t think it is convenient to see me as a good person Sibling illegitimizes her entire story I should be respected 5. Limiting Beliefs You don’t trust my ability to take care of myself, that hurts She has 10 billion times more faith in my brothers I haven’t done half the things they have Any chance that I've had a moment to truly find happiness that gets pulled away from me 6. Story of Regret I'm letting my family down I don't like being that person anymore. I don't like Giving everybody that same label, and not giving everybody opportunity to show me who they are, I'm just tired of having that defense up constantly, and It takes so much energy for me throughout my day to hold up those defenses and put on a certain demeanor or a certain face while I'm at work I don't want to be hurt or affected by anybody. 7. Story of Transformation Me taking time for myself is not a problem. It’s been getting a lot better with anxiety I have a little bit more compassion 1. Understanding the Trigger I was about to leave my mother’s life because I didn’t think she appreciated me and I was obligated to take care of her
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Week 19: My Limiting Beliefs For Week 19, I've reflected on the limiting beliefs holding me back and am sharing them openly here. Belief in Sales: A long-held belief is that I'm not good at sales and don't enjoy it. This kept me away from commission-based roles until I launched my coaching business. Limiting my career options. - Rigid Schedule Attachment: I cling to self-created schedules, even when they no longer align with my goals. What worked in my early learning phase now hinders my shift to business-owner implementation and flexible time use. - Fear of Being Seen: Hiding my authentic self has blocked my highest potential. Over the past few months, I've challenged this by showing up more fully. - As I invest in growth, I'm committing to asking questions of experts in coaching and beyond releasing these beliefs to step forward boldly.​
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Hi! I’m Betty Ann (AKA Betty Boop). I’m a 76 going on 18 retired widow living in Peoria Arizona. I just joined this community and I thought I would introduce myself.
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Hi @Betty Ann Raymond. It’s great to meet you. What made you join this group?
Do you treat your partner like they’re your ex?
Consider this… Most of us carry scars from past relationships. Maybe someone betrayed your trust. Maybe you gave your all and still ended up heartbroken. Maybe you were made to feel like you weren’t enough. Whatever your experience, I want you to know this: Your past doesn’t have to shape your future. But if it goes unresolved, it will follow you into every relationship you enter. You might not notice it at first. But it shows up when something small goes wrong, and your instinct is to walk away… It shows up when there’s a disagreement, and suddenly you feel like pulling the plug on the whole thing… And I get it. I really do. It can be hard to trust again when you’ve been hurt. It can be hard to believe this one could be different when all you’ve known is disappointment. But here’s the truth: You might be treating your current or future partner as if they are your ex. You want to be in a connected relationship. But something inside of you is holding you back. And the person in front of you now or in the future, the one who shows up, who communicates, who cares… The one that’s trying to be in a relationship with you… You’re not letting them! And it’s not because you don’t care. It’s because your past has made you build walls instead of bridges. If this resonates with you, maybe it’s time to pause… and reflect. Let yourself be loved. Let yourself be chosen. Stop running from the very thing you've always wanted. You deserve the relationship you dream about. But first, you have to stop letting your past sabotage your present. If this resonates then let me know
1 like • Aug '25
@Aleksandra Glapinska Well put! It's nice to see you in the group!
Welcome to The Relationship You Deserve Community
(Please take 1 min to read this entire post) This is a community for people who are committed to creating the relationships they truly deserve. For more than a decade, we’ve supported thousands in ✨ Healing past negative relationship patterns, ✨ Learning how to stop arguing and avoid conflict ✨ How to fulfil yours and your partner's needs. And now we’re here to help you do the same. ❤️ It doesn't matter if you are single ❤️❤️ or in a relationship 💕It doesn't matter what kind of relationship you want (It's not gender specfic) Whether you're looking to: ✨ Attract a new partner ✨ Fix your current relationship ✨ Heal your relationship with yourself ✨ Guide others into the Relationship They Deserve... As a new member, get ready for trainings and conversations on topics like: 💫 How To Heal Toxic Patterns 💫 How To Become A Secure Attachment 💫 How To Handle Conflict And Set Boundaries 💫 How to fulfil your and your partner’s needs… ...and so much more! Here's how to get the most out of this community… ✅ STEP #1) Introduce yourself and your relationship Challenge? Share who you are and what your biggest challenge is at the moment in your relationships? ✅ STEP #2) Download " The 3 Problems Stopping You From Getting The Relationship You Deserve & How To Fix IT HERE: Inside, you will find the exact steps that you need to fix your relationship patterns and get the relationship you deserve. Click here to download the guide now ✅ STEP #3) Access Your FREE Relationship Training Here: We work with our community incredibly personally to help them get the relationship they deserve. Start watching the training and taking the first steps to getting the relationship you deserve with our support: https://www.skool.com/the-relationship-you-deserve/classroom We’re super pumped to serve you. As always, no matter what happens Never give up on your dreams.
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Hi Everyone! My name is Tracey, and I’m excited to join you as I work toward becoming a Certified Relationship You Deserve Coach. My coaching journey began with a desire to empower women—especially those over 30 who’ve dedicated themselves to family, work, or social media, and in doing so, sometimes lost touch with their own dreams and voices. As a Stress No More Coach, I focused on helping women reconnect with their inner strengths. While supporting others, I realized that my own communication skills needed work—so much so that I almost lost one of my most important relationships, the one with my mother. Thanks to the Expert Coach Accelerator, I learned how to strengthen my relationships and take responsibility for my part. As I’ve continued through @Ed JC Smith's programs, I’ve also seen how much healthier my relationship with my partner has become when we each recognize our needs as individuals and as a couple. Right now, my biggest challenge is navigating the recent loss of our beloved dog, Yeezy. So much of our energy and focus went to him, and now we’re learning to rediscover who we are as a couple, and how to reconnect in this new chapter. I look forward to growing alongside all of you and sharing insights as we journey together.
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I help women aged 30+ struggling with stress and anxiety reconnect with themselves through customized self-care routines.

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