@Alex Rehbichler yes, some people can pick and choose and some people can't. White people in America don't have to be terrified if the police ....or even the government....our US government. As a trauma-informed practices educator, I HAVE to include systemic violence when discussing trauma. I have to take into account how the society has impacted an individual because of their status in society. And when the government is actively murdering citizens-it gets pretty darn scary!!! How does Racism, Misogyny, Homophobia, Classism, etc ...harm EVERY SINGLE PERSON in the US. I am speaking ONLY about the US, because what I have found is that people outside of the US have NO CLUE what is happening inside of the US. My theory base is Intersectional Feminism....