100% Leslie! I am all for the pizza party, but what connects people more is a shared experience. That is why military members are all brothers in arms, and call each other such regardless of the division of the military they were in. The shared experience of combat...knowing everyone else can feel you, see you and truly understand you without the having to talk about it. To have that level of being seen and herd in your work family - that is a company with very low turn over, and extremely loyal team members. They are not family, not even like family...its deeper then that. It is true appreciation, respect, and understanding of each and every member of the organization. Knowing that you can't do what you do, without them and what they do. I have been in companies where the value of people breaks down near the top, and in others where it breaks down on the floor with the newest member. Creating an organization that values its people needs to be a core value that is enforced top down and bottom up. Anyone not supporting that mission should not stay in the organization because they become a cancer that will erode away the best people.