⭐ what’s your BIGGEST insight from today’s call? My biggest insight was when you said, “The Pattern That got you into it is not the pattern that gets you out “ . Intellectually I understand I have a pattern and have done the work before. Then the subconscious story from childhood creeps in, preventing a full shift. ⭐ what did you learn from the worksheet and from Aaron AI? I realized how I've muted my light throughout my life just to survive. However, I haven't managed to turn it off completely either. I gained the clarity needed to overcome any resistance to shining fully without doubt or shame. ⭐ what patterns did you discover from doing the personalized worksheet? I realized that how I reacted to my career fears was the same as how I behaved in my relationship. I was afraid of being accepted fully, so I would shrink to adapt.

what’s your BIGGEST insight from today’s call? My biggest insight was a pattern i didnt know i had the one of feeling that people only remember me when they need to use me for something what did you learn from the worksheet and from Aaron AI? I realized i had a pattern or trauma from the past of wasting all my time and energy in people that didnt deserve it and now i dont want to invest energy in anyone new, i feel very drained what patterns did you discover from doing the personalized worksheet? I realized that how I react to money is the same way i react to relationships with people and im scared of being used or waste my energy

When you have an unavailable parent, you easily get attached to anyone who shows you kindness. You easily get attached to people out of reach. You build your hopes up , maybe you finally found someone who resembles your missing parent, and then you discover they are not who you wanted them to be. After realising you cannot substitute an unavailable parent, you enter a grieving phase. It seems like it's a never-ending process. This heavy feeling accompanies you every day, everywhere you go. Like a dark cloud walking alongside you. You try everything. Find a new hobby, travel, change your environment, work, distract yourself ... etc. But nothing seems to help. These things only serve as temporary relief to still the pain. In moments of silence, the grief comes back. You sit with it, you feel it, you tell your inner child, "I am here for you" "I am listening" "Tell me more" And the sadness is still there. I once heard Dr Julie say, "You cannot get rid of grief." You learn to live with it. You build your life around it. And then one day, it disappears. It seems like forever, but it will pass eventually! Especially when you have a supportive community of like-minded people. And a supportive coach like @Aaron Doughty To anyone going through a grieving process right now, I just wanted to tell you, we see you. I know this feels heavy right now, but you are going to get through this. I wish there was something we could do or say to make this feeling go away. Just know we are here with you, holding you and supporting you. We cannot make this feeling go away, but maybe it becomes a little lighter when we carry it together. I'm so sorry you had to go through this! Know that you are surrounded by love and light, washing all your pains away A kind heart can never be let down by the universe/the Divine. Imagine avalanches of light pouring down from the heavens straight into your heart, pushing all the pains outside, like water pouring into a cup, cleansing all the ache out, like dirt being replaced with clean water.

⭐ What did you learn from the worksheet and from Aaron AI? I learned that my money mindset is connected from my early childhood experience, at two. My parents were in the process of getting a divorce and literally pulling on each of my arms, fighting over who I was leaving with. That was the moment I learned I had to be my own 'safety' and took on the role of the family peace-keeper, managing and soothing the emotions of my parents and siblings. ⭐ What patterns did you discover from doing the personalized worksheet? I recognize that this early experience created a pattern of shrinking and making myself smaller, over-giving. holding space for others, and not expressing my needs and receiving that support from others as well. ⭐ The attached photo is me at ~6 months full of light, wide-eyed, and already observing and absorbing my environment.

Seriously if you haven’t filled out the identity worksheet you’re missing out. Don’t miss out! You’re worth it 💯! My main insight is knowing where my core identity stems from, childhood. If wanting something out loud gets it cancelled, then I’ll stop wanting it out loud. If needing care gets me in trouble, I’ll become the one who doesn’t need much. If my excitement makes trouble, I’ll dim it before it shows. The helper, the strong one, the easy one who doesn’t need much. Three costumes, one decision made a long time ago. My take away from this #Day1HW. The good things are mine to keep. My excitement is safe out loud. I don’t have to take it away first. Sending each and every one of you tons of love and an abundance of light. 🫶🏼🙏