A late transition. A drifting circle. A crooked line. These can seem like "wrong answers" from the horse. But did your horse still slow down even though you asked for a halt? Did your horse speed up even though you asked for a trot? Your horse heard you and tried! And if you ride that try—by softening, redirecting, and praising—you’ll keep the conversation open! Ask your horse: “How can I help you find the right answer?” 💬 Question for riders: Do you feel like your horse is trying? Even if it isn't perfect?

Leaving the arena can feel like a big step—but it’s also a powerful one. The quiet skills you’ve been practicing—breathing, balance, and clear communication—are what give you the confidence to enjoy the ride beyond the dressage letters. Whether it’s a walk around the property or your first group trail excursion outside, it all counts. When was the last time you rode on the trail? Where do you want to ride next when you’re ready? Share your goal below!

When your horse does something off track—like a crooked transition—it’s easy to get stuck in what’s wrong. But that often shows up in our body as tension, and in our tone as frustration. Instead of “No, not that,” try: ✔ “Yes, now go this way.” ✔ “Good try, now here’s the balance.” ✔ “Thanks for the effort—let’s adjust the line.” That small shift turns correction into redirection. It keeps your horse more relaxed and keeps YOU from riding in frustration. 💬 Question for the Group: Can you think of a moment where this shift would’ve helped? What’s one cue you may be working on that says “this way” instead of “not that” for your next ride?

A solo trail ride? Cantering without fear? Trotting down centerline at a show with a big smile on your face? "Riding with confidence” might look slightly different for everyone in terms of your specific goals, but all riders need to grow and develop their confidence. We need confidence to be good leaders to our horses and to be able to build our skills in the saddle. The more skills you can build, the more your horses will trust you and you'll feel that confidence grow! So tell us: What are your goals right now and what does "riding with confidence" look like for you?

Thank you for joining our community! Let's get to know each other! I'm Nicole, a dressage trainer based in Los Angeles, and I’ve helped countless riders overcome show nerves, overcome their doubts or fears, and ride with confidence. Building confidence is a process that - like training a horse - happens one step at a time. I’m so excited to support you on your journey! ✨Step 1: 👇 Introduce yourself and where you're from What's your favorite breed of horse? Or what kind of horse do you have? Add A GIF for extra flair! ✨Bonus: Become a Level 2 member FAST for free courses 👇 Reply to at least two other group members and start real conversations! When you are done - CLICK ME FOR STEP 2 👈