One of the hardest things for riders to do when they face a challenge is to keep going. It's not because you don't want to keep going - it's because it's hard! Break things down into manageable pieces. You can't learn Chopin if you don't take the time to learn each note of the scale, so put in the time and keep going towards each SMALL step because they add up.

When your horse does something off track—like a crooked transition—it’s easy to get stuck in what’s wrong. But that often shows up in our body as tension, and in our tone as frustration. Instead of “No, not that,” try: ✔ “Yes, now go this way.” ✔ “Good try, now here’s the balance.” ✔ “Thanks for the effort—let’s adjust the line.” That small shift turns correction into redirection. It keeps your horse more relaxed and keeps YOU from riding in frustration. 💬 Question for the Group: Can you think of a moment where this shift would’ve helped? What’s one cue you may be working on that says “this way” instead of “not that” for your next ride?

“You can learn new things at any time in your life if you are willing to be a beginner.” – Warwick Schiller Learning something new as an adult can feel intimidating - almost like there is an expectation that you'll be better because you're older. But every rider starts at the beginning. As an adult - vs a child starting in lessons - you bring patience, perspective, and a deeper appreciation for the process. Give yourself time and permission to grow! What’s been the most rewarding (or challenging) part of starting your riding journey as an adult?