I know this is possible in telegram but how many of us are using it? maybe anyone knows where else its possible? how to arrange that here ?

⚡ “younger women always have better offspring”, "you must be young to have kids"⚡ The fertility myth we grew up with and what science tells us Let’s dismantle one of the strongest societal beliefs: “The younger the woman is, the healthier the baby.” It’s everywhere — in medicine, culture, family pressure. But modern research shows a much more nuanced truth. It’s everywhere — in medicine, culture, family pressure. But modern research shows a much more nuanced truth. 💣 1. Women’s eggs are not time bombs A groundbreaking study published in 2025 (Arbeithuber B. et al., Science Advances) delivered a surprising discovery: 👉 Egg cells do NOT accumulate mitochondrial DNA mutations with age (ages 20–42). Key findings from this study: - in blood + saliva → mtDNA mutations increase with age - in oocytes → mutation load stays low and stable - eggs had 17–24× fewer mtDNA mutations than somatic tissues This means: Women’s eggs have a powerful protective mechanism that keeps mitochondrial DNA nearly unchanged for decades. So no — eggs do NOT “decay” genetically the way we were told in school biology. But… ⚠️ 2. Age Still Matters but for different reasons The same study explicitly states: 👉 chromosomal abnormalities STILL increase with maternal age This is crucial. The stability of mtDNA does not mean: - eggs do not age - fertility stays the same - older eggs are risk-free What actually changes with age: - ↑ aneuploidy (chromosomal errors) - ↓ ovarian reserve - ↓ quality of ovulation - ↓ follicular environment - ↓ hormonal regulation So yes, age affects female fertility. But not because “eggs fall apart.” Rather because the system around the egg changes. 📌 This aligns with decades of reproductive research and remains consistent. 👨‍🔬 3. And the part society avoids: The man matters too The myth goes: “Men stay fertile forever.” Science strongly disagrees. Studies show that as men age: - sperm DNA fragmentation increases - motility + morphology decrease - risk of autism, schizophrenia & some genetic conditions in offspring increases with paternal age - time to pregnancy becomes longer - miscarriage risk increases

A few years ago I stopped taking male clients. The reason was simple: repeatedly, instead of professional requests I received sexualized messages and boundary-crossing propositions. About 70% of incoming “requests” are sexual in nature, not therapeutic. So let me be crystal clear: If you are here to fantasize, flirt, or seek intimacy with a therapist - leave now. I will not tolerate it Nor waste my time. Maybe you wonder Why they do it? • Confusion of care and sexuality — some men cannot separate being cared for from being a sexual opportunity. • Erotic transference acted out — instead of reflecting on projections, they act on them. • Objectification — female professionals are reduced to sexual objects rather than respected for their expertise. • Avoidance through fantasy — turning therapy into a sexual outlet to escape real vulnerability and shame. And yes — online anonymity lowers inhibition, but many men behave this way offline too. The pattern is real. ‼️ If you’re here to project fantasies — you’re not ready for therapy and you don’t belong in this community.‼️ ‼️ Community note: If you receive similar messages — screenshot, block, report, and DM me. We will document and act. This space is a professional, boundaried container. Respect it or leave. I also know that most people on Skool are different. You’re here to grow, to exchange ideas, to support each other, not to cross boundaries. That’s why I chose this platform, I believe in creating a space where conversations are real, respectful, and transformative. And I’m grateful to everyone who’s part of that. ❤️

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Yes — even too much pleasure can fry your nervous system. And we’re finally coming back to talk about sex again. 💋 Most people associate burnout with overwork or toxic relationships — but you can also burn out from things that were amazing.From great sex, deep connection, emotional intensity, endless travel, or even too much transformation in too little time. It happened to me. There was a period when sex in my life was intense, healing, powerful — it opened up parts of me I didn’t even know existed.And then… I hit a wall. Suddenly, I felt numb. My body stopped responding the way it used to. I didn’t want touch. I didn’t want closeness. I felt drained — and confused.Nothing was wrong. But my body said “enough.” 🔬 Science has a name for this: sexual burnout. It happens when the nervous system becomes overstimulated by pleasure hormones like dopamine and oxytocin.Without proper recovery, your system gets overwhelmed — and instead of craving intimacy, it shuts down. For women, this might look like: • emotional detachment • drop in libido • irritability or tension around sex For men: • emotional numbness • avoidance of intimacy • physical or mental fatigue after sex It’s not a pathology. It’s a signal: your body needs rest, integration and slowness. Just like a muscle after a heavy workout, your sexuality also needs recovery. 💬 Have you ever felt emotionally tired from something that was “supposed” to be good? Burned out from intimacy, love, or pleasure? Let’s talk in the comments 👇 You're not alone.