A few years ago I stopped taking male clients. The reason was simple: repeatedly, instead of professional requests I received sexualized messages and boundary-crossing propositions. About 70% of incoming “requests” are sexual in nature, not therapeutic. So let me be crystal clear: If you are here to fantasize, flirt, or seek intimacy with a therapist - leave now. I will not tolerate it Nor waste my time. Maybe you wonder Why they do it? • Confusion of care and sexuality — some men cannot separate being cared for from being a sexual opportunity. • Erotic transference acted out — instead of reflecting on projections, they act on them. • Objectification — female professionals are reduced to sexual objects rather than respected for their expertise. • Avoidance through fantasy — turning therapy into a sexual outlet to escape real vulnerability and shame. And yes — online anonymity lowers inhibition, but many men behave this way offline too. The pattern is real. ‼️ If you’re here to project fantasies — you’re not ready for therapy and you don’t belong in this community.‼️ ‼️ Community note: If you receive similar messages — screenshot, block, report, and DM me. We will document and act. This space is a professional, boundaried container. Respect it or leave. I also know that most people on Skool are different. You’re here to grow, to exchange ideas, to support each other, not to cross boundaries. That’s why I chose this platform, I believe in creating a space where conversations are real, respectful, and transformative. And I’m grateful to everyone who’s part of that. ❤️

what can I do to promote my sexy community?

Yes — even too much pleasure can fry your nervous system. And we’re finally coming back to talk about sex again. 💋 Most people associate burnout with overwork or toxic relationships — but you can also burn out from things that were amazing.From great sex, deep connection, emotional intensity, endless travel, or even too much transformation in too little time. It happened to me. There was a period when sex in my life was intense, healing, powerful — it opened up parts of me I didn’t even know existed.And then… I hit a wall. Suddenly, I felt numb. My body stopped responding the way it used to. I didn’t want touch. I didn’t want closeness. I felt drained — and confused.Nothing was wrong. But my body said “enough.” 🔬 Science has a name for this: sexual burnout. It happens when the nervous system becomes overstimulated by pleasure hormones like dopamine and oxytocin.Without proper recovery, your system gets overwhelmed — and instead of craving intimacy, it shuts down. For women, this might look like: • emotional detachment • drop in libido • irritability or tension around sex For men: • emotional numbness • avoidance of intimacy • physical or mental fatigue after sex It’s not a pathology. It’s a signal: your body needs rest, integration and slowness. Just like a muscle after a heavy workout, your sexuality also needs recovery. 💬 Have you ever felt emotionally tired from something that was “supposed” to be good? Burned out from intimacy, love, or pleasure? Let’s talk in the comments 👇 You're not alone.

I just wanna make a navigation system here. so its more comfortable to find a topic you're interested in but Im feeling like a granny lol

I wanted to share this interesting picture that displays different types of non-monogamous relationships. Non-monogamy can take many forms, and understanding these can broaden our perspectives on relationships and love. Did you know about all of them? Which ones were new to you? Cheers, Irina 🥂