7ď¸âŁ Science-Backed Phrases to Prevent Power Struggles with Kids đŻ
đBookmark It: This will come in handy later 1. âYes, you can have a cookie after dinner. First, letâs get dinner ready together.â đUsing âyes, afterâ instead of ânoâ reinforces delayed gratification and cooperation. 2. âItâs time to go. Do you want to wear your sneakers or boots?â đOffering structured choices gives kids a measure of control while keeping boundaries clear. 3. âWe donât throw things indoors. If you want to throw, letâs go outside and pick a target.â đRedirection teaches impulse control by replacing an undesired action with an acceptable alternative. 4. âBedtime helps your brain grow stronger. Do you want to brush your teeth first or put on pajamas?â đFraming bedtime as beneficial rather than a demand provides a motive to cooperate. 5. âItâs bath time! Do you want to add bubbles or pick a bath toy?â đMaking routine tasks fun encourages cooperation without a fight. 6. âTime to wash your hair. Want to do it yourself, or should I help?â đGiving age-appropriate autonomy supports independence while reducing resistance. 7. âWhen your video ends, can you help me with a quick job?â đUsing âwhen, thenâ instead of âstop nowâ teaches transition skills and responsibility. đ¤Know some parents struggling? Share this post and invite them to join Mindset Masterclass đ¤