So true 29 yr old an 19 yr old both needed something different. Beina parent is hard and yes ther is no book so all cards are on the table and all bets are debatable

Plan be can be either, ally because you have something to fall back non if A doesn't work. But an enemy that can get you stuck, because your doing what's comfortable and safe stifling yourself. I hope this makes sense sounded better in my head😆

Yep just had the Convo with my daughter who graduated from HS in May

Late but tapping in. Short answer no. It took me a while to get to this point I have 2 daughters the eldest loved to read, no problem with going to school and loving it, to college graduating magnumlcum laude 🤦. School was a necessity for me to move and changey life circumstances. However my young st struggled with school, had difficulty with reading later diagnosed with SLD and on the nild end of Dyslexia spectrum. It was a chore for o motivate her to go she just wanted to quit or just get through. When her friends began to talk about college she became overwhelmed and paranoid. I stepped back and thought before we sat down to talk about it. I started by telling her just bc I went to college, your sister went to college and your friends are going, I need you to think about it-- to cut this short she found passion in the trade classes her school offered engaged in cosmetology cohort and graduated with a certification. Still thinks about college and knows her options. I'm just supporting her decisions and honoring her thoughts and feelings.And we talked aboutt online courses as well that seemed to appeal to her a h eat deal

yea, congrats that is so awesome