The events from earlier this week compelled me to put down my thoughts surrounding the idea and presentation of masculinity and how it relates to Smart Funny Tortured. It begins with a simple observation: what we often see modeled as “strength” from positions of power isn’t strength at all—it’s aggression, bullying, and insecurity. That’s counterfeit masculinity. And counterfeit masculinity breeds shame. But here’s where this connects to our Smart Funny Tortured framework: - Smart → Real strength begins with clarity of mind. Not just intellect, but discernment. Knowing the difference between counterfeit power and true sovereignty. - Funny → The noble masculine carries lightness, joy, and flow. He doesn’t need to crush others to prove his worth—he can laugh, connect, and play without fear. - Tortured → Many of us grew up under bullies or systems that mocked sensitivity. Our pain here is real. But it can be reclaimed as fuel—for empathy, for courage, for protection. This is reclamation in action: taking back the essence of what it means to be strong, and refusing to let shame or bluster define us. 💬 Community Prompt I’d love to hear from you: - What moments in your life have shown you the difference between counterfeit strength and sovereign strength? - How does this idea of the noble masculine show up in your own Smart, Funny, or Tortured story? 👉 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9ts0oTK0UCI?si=J3OptG1j4S23hyli And then share your reflections below. Let’s model what sovereignty looks like—together.

🚩It’s a brand-new week. A blank canvas. A new chance to show up. 👉 What’s your essence flag this week? - SMART: A skill, strength, or focus you’ll sharpen. - FUNNY: A source of joy, flow, or play you’ll choose. - TORTURED: A shadow you’ll face and use as fuel. - Declare it below. Your words may be the spark for someone else. 👇

There are two kinds of people in the world: Healers and Fixers. Healers are the ones we fall into—They notice what we’re holding.They ask if we’re okay.They meet us where we are. Fixers are the ones who get us home.They see what needs doing and just do it.They act. They solve. They carry the bag at 2AM. But the people who change our lives—and the ones we can choose to become—are both. They’re the ones who know when to hold and when to help.The ones who meet you in the wreckage and help you climb out. Today’s Smart + Funny Fusion Workshop is a live experiment in becoming that kind of human. Smart = your brilliance, strategy, perspective. Funny = your joy, your flow, your ability to hold.Together? They begin to unlock your range. 🌀 And yes—beneath it all is Tortured. The part that knows. The part that made you pay attention. We’ll go there soon. 💬 Reflection Prompt ( Drop in below ⬇️ ) Which one do you naturally lead with—Healer or Fixer? And where might you grow by integrating the other?

I am new to all of this and find it intriguing and terrifying at the same time.

Tonight’s Funny workshop was pure magic. The laughter, the honesty, and the moments of awakening to the pursuit of pleasure to activate joy reminded us why this pillar is so essential. Thank you to everyone who showed up with your humor, your stories, and your light. Share the light that stayed with you—whether it was a breakthrough about joy, an insight on flow, or simply a moment that made you smile. Your reflection could be the medicine another member needs today. 🌟 🗓️ And remember: these workshops are not about perfection or completion—they’re about connection. You don’t need to have every worksheet done to join. Just bring yourself, your curiosity, and your willingness to play. Check the Calendar tab for the next gathering (September 10th at 6PM). Until then—drop your takeaways below and keep spreading the joy with your Smart Funny Tortured family. 💫