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5 contributions to The Unorthodox Recovery Coach
New Course
I’m thinking about doing another free course any ideas guys?
1 like • Mar 14
More of the same please tony
1 like • Mar 15
@Dr Sam Mishra h.c. that's a very good subject
Day 28 Prompt
“Plan one small win for next week.”
1 like • Mar 1
This month tony I've learnd alot by asking myself your questions, I feel im starting to learn much more about me,about how I was trained to think, but I definitely no I've a better understanding of my mind,also I wanna say a quick thank you for everything you've done for me on our 1 to 1 therapy sessions ,absolutely there's no doubt in my mind you've shown and taught how me how to change my life, and for that il be forever grateful, thank you so much tony 😊 🙏 ❤️
Day 1 video 1 de- labelling shame
So this reset is about learning how to understand yourself… Without attacking yourself.Without blaming yourself.Without shaming yourself. You’re going to learn: Why your habits formedHow urges really workHow emotions move through your bodyHow identity drives behaviourHow self-trust is built — not wished for No judgement. Just clarity.” “Each week, you’ll get short videos.Simple daily tasks.Nothing overwhelming. Small actions.Small reflections.Small upgrades. Designed to move you… From survival modeTo self-leadershipOne step at a time.” All I’m asking is this: Show up. Be honest.Try the exercises. You don’t need to be perfect. You don’t need to feel ready. You just need to be willing.” “There is nothing wrong with you. You are not broken. You were trained. And training can be updated. Let’s begin.”
Day 1 video 1 de- labelling shame
0 likes • Feb 1
Great video Tony,one example from me was acting a tuff guy in school so id fit in with the tough guys when really I wasn't that tuff at all
0 likes • Feb 1
Thanks Tony for your feedback, yea il give the 3 questions some thought and try get answers
Welcome to the 28 day reset
This 28-day reset is about learning how to understand yourself without blaming or shaming yourself. You’ll explore: - Why your patterns make sense - How urges and emotions really work - How identity shapes behaviour - How to build self-trust and direction There is no “fixing” here. No labels. No judgement. Just clarity, choice, and learning how to run your life again. Each week includes short videos and simple daily tasks designed to help you move from survival mode to self-leadership one small step at a time. Show up. Be honest. Try the exercises. That’s enough. You are not broken. You were trained.And training can be updated.
Welcome to the 28 day reset
0 likes • Feb 1
Thanks Tony,looking forward for the next 28 days and taking everything on board and learning different and very helpful strategies your teaching us
Day 6 what triggers really mean.
Most people think a trigger is just something that annoys them.But a real trigger is deeper. A trigger is anything that activates an old wound, an old fear, or an old version of you. Here are some examples that might hit home: When someone doesn’t text back The trigger isn’t the silence.The trigger is the old fear of being abandoned. When someone raises their voice Your body reacts before your mind does.Why?Because it remembers a time when loud voices meant danger. When life starts going well You sabotage, overthink, or shut down.This trigger is about fear of responsibility, success, or losing everything. When someone compliments you or praises you If you shrink or deflect, the trigger is an old belief that you’re not worthy. When you set a boundary and feel guilty The guilt isn’t real it’s the people-pleasing identity-you built to survive. THE REFRAME Triggers aren’t signs that you’re broken. They’re signs that your nervous system is trying to protect you the only way it knows how…even if the danger is long gone. Triggers point to the places that need understanding, not shame. REFLECTION PROMPT What’s ONE thing that triggers you — and what old story does it activate?Share below. Let’s unpack this together. 🖤 Please comment below and fill out the trigger sheet attached.
Day 6 what triggers really mean.
0 likes • Feb 1
Very useful information tony,thanks 👌
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