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Thank you for being part of the Rainbow Path 🌈 I look forward to working and growing with you as we explore what our healing gifts can bring for us and the people who need you. Happy New Year Anthony

Here's what nobody tells you about your healing gift -- Your gift doesn't have to look like anybody else's You work with what you have now. Change and growth will come. You have different tools than I do. You have different access. We've had different battles. Maybe your gift isn't about reading coffee grounds—it's about reading energy in a boardroom. Maybe it's not about herbs—it's about frequency and sound. Maybe it's not about candles—it's about code and creation. You're not less than because you're different. You're the next iteration of healing in the world. Healing gifts are not stagnant. Our gifts adapts. They upgrade. Our gifts speak the language of the time we live in. No need to resurrect someone's outdated version. Birth yours! Healing needs evolution to flourish and to heal what is going on today. Be Bold. Be Brave. Be the healer you know deep inside you are!

When we absorb or merge emotions, it's important to begin practicing the skill of Releasing these emotions that don't belong to you. Part of the skill is determining what is yours and what is not. Distinguishing Your Feelings from Others': The Clarity Protocol When you're feeling something intense, ask these three questions: 1. When did this feeling start? If it came on suddenly after being around someone or reading something, it's probably not yours. 2. Does this feeling make sense with my actual circumstances? If you were fine ten minutes ago and nothing in your life changed, but you're suddenly anxious—it's most likely absorbed. 3. Where do I feel this in my body? Your feelings have a familiar landscape in your body. Absorbed emotions often feel foreign, like they're sitting on top of you rather than moving through you. This is what I usually call feeling like something is "stuck" on you. When you identify an absorbed emotion, here's how to release it: Say out loud: "This is not mine. I release it back to its source with love." "This is not mine. I release it" Say this as many times as you need until you sense the movement away from you of the stuck emotion. You can visualize the emotion lifting off you, or simply sense that it is leaving and returning to wherever it came from. Feel the space it leaves behind. That's your energy returning. Simply breathe in slowly and exhale slowly and allow your energy to return to fill the space. Do this as many times per day as needed. Eventually, you'll catch absorption the moment it happens. Let me know how this works for you. Remember we are building skills as part of our healing work as empathic people.

As we move into the last part of this year and this holiday season, many of us will be with family or others we consider family. Some will be in awesome environments, some of us will be in environments that test us as they do every year. So it's important to start looking at boundaries and why what you think you have in place is not the right thing for you. All your comments are welcome. 1. Why Boundary Books Don't Address Energy Leakage You've probably read the boundary books. "No is a complete sentence." "You teach people how to treat you." "Stop people-pleasing." It is good advice. But it doesn't work for empaths. Because the problem isn't just psychological—it's energetic. You can set a verbal boundary and still energetically merge with the person's disappointment. You can say no with your mouth and feel what they're feeling so intensely that you end up saying yes anyway, or punishing yourself for days afterward. Traditional boundary work operates at the mental and behavioral level. It doesn't address the energetic bleeding that happens before you even open your mouth. This is why you can read every boundary book ever written and still walk away from coffee with a friend feeling like you've been hit by a truck. The conversation was fine. The boundary was maintained. But energetically, you gave away the store. What empaths need isn't better boundaries—it's energetic sovereignty. The ability to seal your field so that you can be compassionate without merging, present without absorbing, open without bleeding out. I look at this as using filters to maintain that energetic sovereignty. And yes it requires work and choice to set the proper filters you need to remain intact. 2. That brings me to the Spiritual Bypass Trap: When "Love and Light" Makes It Worse! This is why many, if not most, spiritual teachings fail empaths: "Just send them love and light." "Raise your vibration and lower vibrations can't affect you." "If you're affected by someone's energy, you're not evolved enough."