I was feeling a bit down after I got in a spat with this Indonesian girl that stayed at my place for a few days that I had trouble getting rid of. Yesterday I hit up some guy I met who I saw doing cold approach in BKK and we went out to do cold approach together. I talked to 10+ sets including some harder sets with groups of two girls or more. My friend ended up talking to zero. I guess he just wanted to hangout. He said I had balls of steel for going for girls in groups lol. Interestingly the girl I was the most attracted to was the most receptive and her friend kinda helped wing me a little bit because there was a bit of a language barrier. Unfortunately, I was in a bit of a rush and didn’t get the chance to record anything. I also had a date last night, I brought her back to my place and tried to close but then she mentioned she had only been with one other guy before, so I didn't end up closing. This was a second date after meeting her from cold approach. Crazy how I keep meeting these girls with super low body counts in Bangkok despite the stereotype. I guess it’s because I’m meeting them from cold approach and not online or at a club. I’ve been trying to focus more on making progress with work today, but thinking I might be able to setup a date tonight and maybe record some quick approaches prior to keep some momentum going. I have a bootcamp & photoshoot scheduled with Mike next weekend. Any advice on how I can prepare to get the most out of it other than keeping doing what I’m doing?

i´ve (35yo) met this Girl (25yo) about one year ago, while hosting an Event. She is a model who attended the event but after that we had no contact for about 6 month. Then she replied to an IG story, where i was looking models to shoot some reels. We met with her twin sister in a cafe and talked for 3 hours. We decided to start a local project together and met again to film the first reel. But i dont have time to do free stuff like this anymore, since i work a lot. The third meeting was at an opening Party of my Photo Studio in Hamburg (i/we live in Hanover). After that we went back home via train. Last Meeting was me inviting her to play some Tennis 2 weeks ago with 2 other girls. So we have spend some time togehter - would say like around 10-20 hours in the last 2 months. She also recommended me some guy-friend who worked for me yesterday and one of her best female friends boyfriend is also my employee and talkes good about me. But... i´ve never had her 1:1 but i like her personality and she is pretty. So i asked her to take a walk with me and having some cake. Its the first 1:1 meetup and we meet today. Also tbh, she is one of like only 2 girls i met last year (i met a lot) who i think would be a good match for relationship atm, cause of all those green flags she has. The only red is flag ive noticed is like, she is a latina, who comes alsways a little bit later and replies slowly... but always positive and reliable lol. So, how do i transition it from "the interesting guy, that has status and money", to "i would like to have him as a man"? I´m willing to take the risk ending the "friendship". We, or she started to talk about dating and how hard it is for her last time, cause she is pretty and everybody wants her look but doesent know her personality. Couldnt dive in to that and startet flirting, cause we where in a group setting again with another regular female friend... Could you help me with how i should lead the conversation? Maybe just start slow and then transition to talk about dating, red and green flags for her and just get physical slowly from there?

I have a date tonight, but a girl I had a 5 hour date with last night asked to hangout. Kinda torn on what to do. Any advice?

It's been an interesting weekend. On Friday, I met up with a girl I hooked up with from a club a few weeks ago. It was such a sharp contrast to the date I had the night before where the girl didn't drink anything besides a mocktail. This girl only wanted to drink whiskey cokes and wanted me to get drunk. She came home with me and stayed the night, but it was a struggle to have sex with her after the first time. She gave me an out where I could've sent her home that night, but she stayed over. The sex was good, but she felt a bit too skinny and made me want to see a girl who is more curvy. When she left the next day I felt not that great because of the alcohol and poor sleep from the night before. I didn't think I was going to do that much cold approach yesterday but then 1 approach turned into 10+. I had a date lined up from bumble with a curvy taiwanese girl that night, she was quite late. As I walked in to the rooftop bar I was going to meet my girl, some thai girl meowed at me. I thought I was tripping but then I looked over. There was a really hot girl in front of me, but I waited too long to approach and then she was no where to be found. The girl who meowed at me squeezed my shoulder as she past me going back to her table I looked over and her gay friends were ushering me over. She seemed kinda shy when I actually got over and her gay friends did a lof of the talking they asked me "how long" i was lol and then she asked me who i was waiting for i told her a bumble date, but i thought she looked better, and then her gay friends were like threesome and looked at her and she didnt seem entirely opposed to the idea lol. her friends also said it was her birthday. i went back to my table and ordered a bottle of rose with three glasses. when i looked back over at her table there were two white guys talking to them and she was more agressive with one of the white guys than me. i feel like they felt more into the attractive white guy sterotype taller than me with white here. this is bangkok and i feel like i cant let that type of thing get to me. when the bottle arrived those guys were gone and i went over and gave her a glass of rose and told her happy birthday. she came to my table and told me she hoped to go home with me tonight. my date showed up i looked back over and they were gone. i messaged her on ig but no reply. i was kinda into my date and we were having fun. i managed to pull her back to my place, but i made a couple of blunders, but the fatal one was mentioning the girl that was planning to visit me in bangkok. she ended up leaving without me closing and i feel like part of it was she was just trying to be difficult she mightve even been joking at first but it was hard to tell. it was just pretty frustrating because she was pretty forward in some ways and made it seem like i was going to close and also because i felt like i had a strong chance with the other girl and this girls curviness bordered on chubbiness she seemed kinda insecure about it. i thought because my calendar is so full now and because i was frustrated i told her i will probably not see her again as she left. i felt kinda shitty this morning after drinking and smoking weed with the taiwanese girl, but im going to meet with my trainer soon. i have a date lined up tonight but my main focus is going to be to not drink too much and i feel like im not going to care so much about closing with this girl as long as i get a good night's sleep