I went out and made some more sets, then i usually do and im going to do it again today. What i learned yesterday was a hard truth, that i already knew before... Its a numbers game. From all sets i made, it was the same that happened every time in the past, when i was fitter in daygame. Some sets had a boyfriend, some didnt stopped at all. Some even where angry to be approached (germany ❤️)... but one set was pretty good. What did it show me? Its a numbers game. Just do it and there will be a time and place, where it will work. She will be on and from there, you can manage a good transition to have a new woman in your life. Is it hard? yes! But as David in one of the last coaching calls said: "If you want what nobody has and everyone wants, you have to do what nobody is willing to do."

i´ve (35yo) met this Girl (25yo) about one year ago, while hosting an Event. She is a model who attended the event but after that we had no contact for about 6 month. Then she replied to an IG story, where i was looking models to shoot some reels. We met with her twin sister in a cafe and talked for 3 hours. We decided to start a local project together and met again to film the first reel. But i dont have time to do free stuff like this anymore, since i work a lot. The third meeting was at an opening Party of my Photo Studio in Hamburg (i/we live in Hanover). After that we went back home via train. Last Meeting was me inviting her to play some Tennis 2 weeks ago with 2 other girls. So we have spend some time togehter - would say like around 10-20 hours in the last 2 months. She also recommended me some guy-friend who worked for me yesterday and one of her best female friends boyfriend is also my employee and talkes good about me. But... i´ve never had her 1:1 but i like her personality and she is pretty. So i asked her to take a walk with me and having some cake. Its the first 1:1 meetup and we meet today. Also tbh, she is one of like only 2 girls i met last year (i met a lot) who i think would be a good match for relationship atm, cause of all those green flags she has. The only red is flag ive noticed is like, she is a latina, who comes alsways a little bit later and replies slowly... but always positive and reliable lol. So, how do i transition it from "the interesting guy, that has status and money", to "i would like to have him as a man"? I´m willing to take the risk ending the "friendship". We, or she started to talk about dating and how hard it is for her last time, cause she is pretty and everybody wants her look but doesent know her personality. Couldnt dive in to that and startet flirting, cause we where in a group setting again with another regular female friend... Could you help me with how i should lead the conversation? Maybe just start slow and then transition to talk about dating, red and green flags for her and just get physical slowly from there?