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Bouncing Back
I was feeling a bit down after I got in a spat with this Indonesian girl that stayed at my place for a few days that I had trouble getting rid of. Yesterday I hit up some guy I met who I saw doing cold approach in BKK and we went out to do cold approach together. I talked to 10+ sets including some harder sets with groups of two girls or more. My friend ended up talking to zero. I guess he just wanted to hangout. He said I had balls of steel for going for girls in groups lol. Interestingly the girl I was the most attracted to was the most receptive and her friend kinda helped wing me a little bit because there was a bit of a language barrier. Unfortunately, I was in a bit of a rush and didn’t get the chance to record anything. I also had a date last night, I brought her back to my place and tried to close but then she mentioned she had only been with one other guy before, so I didn't end up closing. This was a second date after meeting her from cold approach. Crazy how I keep meeting these girls with super low body counts in Bangkok despite the stereotype. I guess it’s because I’m meeting them from cold approach and not online or at a club. I’ve been trying to focus more on making progress with work today, but thinking I might be able to setup a date tonight and maybe record some quick approaches prior to keep some momentum going. I have a bootcamp & photoshoot scheduled with Mike next weekend. Any advice on how I can prepare to get the most out of it other than keeping doing what I’m doing?
How do you deal with needy girls?
I went on three dates with this girl (met her from cold approach) and the last time I was with her, we spent almost the whole day together she was on her period so we didn’t have sex but we did other things. I kinda like her but I don’t really know how to deal with her being needy like this.
How do you deal with needy girls?
New Date or Followup
I have a date tonight, but a girl I had a 5 hour date with last night asked to hangout. Kinda torn on what to do. Any advice?
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Going to go on the date with the new girl. I really liked the girl from last night, but accepting her asking me to come hangout puts her in the drivers seat. I’m thinking maybe if a girl asks me out I should default to no and then ask her out later if I’m interested so I stay in the lead
Interesting Weekend
It's been an interesting weekend. On Friday, I met up with a girl I hooked up with from a club a few weeks ago. It was such a sharp contrast to the date I had the night before where the girl didn't drink anything besides a mocktail. This girl only wanted to drink whiskey cokes and wanted me to get drunk. She came home with me and stayed the night, but it was a struggle to have sex with her after the first time. She gave me an out where I could've sent her home that night, but she stayed over. The sex was good, but she felt a bit too skinny and made me want to see a girl who is more curvy. When she left the next day I felt not that great because of the alcohol and poor sleep from the night before. I didn't think I was going to do that much cold approach yesterday but then 1 approach turned into 10+. I had a date lined up from bumble with a curvy taiwanese girl that night, she was quite late. As I walked in to the rooftop bar I was going to meet my girl, some thai girl meowed at me. I thought I was tripping but then I looked over. There was a really hot girl in front of me, but I waited too long to approach and then she was no where to be found. The girl who meowed at me squeezed my shoulder as she past me going back to her table I looked over and her gay friends were ushering me over. She seemed kinda shy when I actually got over and her gay friends did a lof of the talking they asked me "how long" i was lol and then she asked me who i was waiting for i told her a bumble date, but i thought she looked better, and then her gay friends were like threesome and looked at her and she didnt seem entirely opposed to the idea lol. her friends also said it was her birthday. i went back to my table and ordered a bottle of rose with three glasses. when i looked back over at her table there were two white guys talking to them and she was more agressive with one of the white guys than me. i feel like they felt more into the attractive white guy sterotype taller than me with white here. this is bangkok and i feel like i cant let that type of thing get to me. when the bottle arrived those guys were gone and i went over and gave her a glass of rose and told her happy birthday. she came to my table and told me she hoped to go home with me tonight. my date showed up i looked back over and they were gone. i messaged her on ig but no reply. i was kinda into my date and we were having fun. i managed to pull her back to my place, but i made a couple of blunders, but the fatal one was mentioning the girl that was planning to visit me in bangkok. she ended up leaving without me closing and i feel like part of it was she was just trying to be difficult she mightve even been joking at first but it was hard to tell. it was just pretty frustrating because she was pretty forward in some ways and made it seem like i was going to close and also because i felt like i had a strong chance with the other girl and this girls curviness bordered on chubbiness she seemed kinda insecure about it. i thought because my calendar is so full now and because i was frustrated i told her i will probably not see her again as she left. i felt kinda shitty this morning after drinking and smoking weed with the taiwanese girl, but im going to meet with my trainer soon. i have a date lined up tonight but my main focus is going to be to not drink too much and i feel like im not going to care so much about closing with this girl as long as i get a good night's sleep
1 like • 28d
TL;DR Wild, alcohol-heavy weekend with multiple dates and cold approaches. Slept with one girl but felt off physically and emotionally afterward. Had a promising rooftop-bar interaction that fizzled, then went on a Bumble date that almost closed but fell apart due to a few missteps and mixed signals. Woke up feeling rough and frustrated, but is refocusing on health, sleep, and lowering pressure around “closing” going forward. Formatted Breakdown Friday Night - Met up with a girl I previously hooked up with from a club - Big contrast to a sober/more reserved date the night before - She drank heavily (whiskey cokes) and wanted me drunk too - She stayed over; sex happened but felt forced after the first time - Physically not my ideal (too skinny → craving more curvy girls) - Next morning: hungover, bad sleep, low energy Saturday – Day Game - Didn’t plan to do much cold approach - Ended up doing 10+ approaches anyway - Momentum built unexpectedly Saturday Night – Rooftop Bar - Had a Bumble date lined up with a curvy Taiwanese girl (she arrived late) - On arrival: - The “meowing” girl: - I went back, ordered a bottle of rosé for us - While waiting: - When the guys left: - My Bumble date arrived → birthday girl disappeared - DM’d her on IG later, no response Bumble Date Outcome - Good chemistry, fun vibe - Took her back to my place - A few mistakes, but the fatal one: - She left without sex - Felt like: - Out of frustration and feeling overbooked, I told her we probably wouldn’t see each other again as she left Sunday Morning Reflection - Felt shitty from drinking + weed - Trainer session coming up - Another date tonight, but:
feelin invisible stateside 🇺🇸
roast me lol i have no problem cold approaching had a few dates this yr but come to the point where american girlz turn me tf off a part of me feels i have to be successful dating stateside before i jet off abroad but damn i'm tired of this sht i'm tired of this sht market it's become so ridiculous all the hoops, the games, the everything not a black pill/incel rant lmao i'm just not willing to put in the work for these ladies the juice ain't worth the squeeze woman abroad are way more feminine girlz stateside are masculine and i feel like i'm competing with them damn it throw in the fact everything is so damn fkn expensive what am i doin all this for!??!!??! i was so embarrassed to even consider goin to phillipines but now idgaf, prefer japan/korea but you get me anyone else feel the same way? trying to suppress this looser back home syndrome/syndrome cause I'M NOT 😴 p.s photo w a chick i cold approached in bkk she was in town for few days, instant date we hung out for the day
feelin invisible stateside 🇺🇸
1 like • Jan 7
Fuck it bro come back to Asia. At least you have been in the trenches for a bit in the states so you can appreciate the easy mode more in Asia.
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