Further thoughts on pursuing excellence in giving women attention. Several women I have had relationships with have used the words "with you, I feel seen." We look at what we pay attention to, and our eyes are one of the main tools to give a woman attention. I have added studying body language experts who talk about how to look at women's eyes, and how to use body language to make them feel like they are being paid attention to, but also listening to experts who talk about push-pull. Give excellent attention, then either withhold it, or give that powerful attention to something or someone else. Less is more......