The biggest breakthrough I’ve had from Michael’s content is understanding preselection. And once I applied it, everything changed. What’s the #1 insight from Michael that improved your dating?

I have a bad habit of not doing anything or going anywhere on weekends. I usually play video games the entire weekend and watch college football when it’s in season. When the basketball team I coach is in season (Feb-July) I have games to go to, but I don’t do anything when I’m not in season. What do MOA do on weekends? I live a boring life and I need to start doing things, but I’m not sure what to do. Any suggestions?

When I first heard this phrase many years ago, I laughed out loud. But the saying hasn’t gone away all these years later and sometimes I do wonder if men can be assholes. I can think of many incidents where I was a complete dick to somebody, or did something impulsive and regretted it. After looking through a lot of the posts, and a lot of the comments in this forum, I can see and hear the entitlement and inflated ego’s of some of the members, myself included. Toxic masculinity is just a hilarious catchphrase for calling out bad behavior so that’s why I found it funny at first, but there is some truth to it. I think there is a difference between being an asshole and having a strong spine. There is a line between the 2 behaviors and I have crossed over to the asshole side plenty of times. But now I am much better at being the strong silent type as Tony Soprano likes to put it. I am curious if you guys do self reflection and think about how you have treated people in the past. Do you consider yourself a good person? What even is a good person?

In addition to my previous post concerning getting a group out successfully, I was wondering if there’s in between steps that may have been missed when conducting first 4 steps of MOA with this fashion show I just attended. I had an event lined up, I sent out invite and got confirmations, no one shows so I attend by myself and tried to meet other creatives and got instagrams. Is this what MOA is about? Just trying and failing (going to these vents yourself) until one day the girls actually decide to show? I feel I’ve suspended disbelief and implemented the protocols swiftly but at this point I feel there may be a gap in knowledge, unless this is the true MOA process. Additionally, I had no leverage with this fashion show host so I bought a few tickets (expecting the female guests) but no luck with guests this time(and money lost). Feel free to add any thoughts you have in the comments.

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