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Men of Action: Forum

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Social Media is Fake (and I'm ok with that)
Ok, so I get it... Social Media is fake and I'm ok with that.. we're fixing our fucking Instagram to project status. But where to draw the line? AI has got some incredible capabilities now.. Check this out as an example: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUGSI4EjVmP/?igsh=ZXRlenh6MWcyN2Zi Would you use AI generated content to project status?
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My perspective is I don't show supercars, because I don't have one. But I would put me and my truck on a Moab trail and edit the fuck out of the settings to make it look amazing. Thats truth in advertising because a woman who is with me will go on off road adventures. I wouldn't put anything there that is not part of my world, but things that are me, get the best and most attractive picture of it. In the classroom there are photo editing YouTube videos, definitely use the lessons and tools.
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At the same time, who is your target audience, and who is your competition? What IG attracts the eyes you want, and what IG makes you look better than the next guy?
Men's attention
Further thoughts on pursuing excellence in giving women attention. Several women I have had relationships with have used the words "with you, I feel seen." We look at what we pay attention to, and our eyes are one of the main tools to give a woman attention. I have added studying body language experts who talk about how to look at women's eyes, and how to use body language to make them feel like they are being paid attention to, but also listening to experts who talk about push-pull. Give excellent attention, then either withhold it, or give that powerful attention to something or someone else. Less is more......
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Friendzone Women
How do you friend zone women? I see this come up a lot, but i genuinely do not understand how to do that?
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There's a woman I crushed on for a long time, and she would go out with me, but in person, there just wasn't any real chemistry, but we LOVE each other's company. We go out frequently to just enjoy each other's company. At parties, she hugs me and stands near me, and signals to all the other women that I'm both safe and desirable. I still lust after her, because shes ridiculously hot, but why fuck up a good thing?
Attention
I've been kicking it around in my head. Women want attention, and as men, they want our attention. What does excellence look like? How can I train myself so my attention is literally the best attention a woman gets? I don't ask from desperation, many women are competing for my attention, but I want my attention to be objectively better than others. Listening ability is in there, competence is in there, but what are all the ingredients?
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@Fernando Vasquez one of my girlfriends only gets to see me once a week, and it definitely makes her value my time more.
Do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?
I have heard Michael say many times that the top 1% of men are so rare that they can have multiple girlfriends. This topic is very interesting, and I see many benefits of having multiple girlfriends and not just one. So that makes me curious: do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?
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I have 2 main girlfriends, and another 2 "comets" Advantages are hyper-preselection. I also get to have multiple relationships that let me different people with different people. Cons are you have to be a Jedi Master at communications, being rock solid, and understanding women. It is not a natural dynamic, so maintaining requires greater work. But its so worth it WITH THE RIGHT LADIES. It won't work with some women.
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Let me go into the right ladies a bit more. The best woman for multiple relationships is the career woman, who is so busy she has no time for a full relationship because she's so career focused. I'd include musicians, athletes and actresses in this group. They dont mind only getting a portion of your time because thats all they can meet you with. But dont rely on them to be your person, and be considerate that they won't change their schedules for you. Polyamorous women or open relationship women are also an option, they are good because you dont have to explain your non-monogamous nature to them. They get it. But protection and STI testing are really important here.
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Matthew Brixey
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