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Vent: My not minding my business on how other men dress
This is just a vent, nothing more than a few paragraphs of whining! Does anyone remember when you got dressed up before going to a steakhouse? Maybe it's just a Texas thing where people don't worry about appearance before going out. I don't mean blazers and shined shoes; but the outfit of choice had at least a touch of gentlemanly style. This Sunday (before Labor Day) I decided to treat myself to a moderately nice steak. I go to the local Longhorn Steakhouse and am advised there would be a slight wait. As I wait in the lobby, I start checking out the people around me--mainly those who were obviously together on some sort of date. The ladies were all dressed well: heels, semi-formal evening wear, care is put into the hair, make up is on point. You get the picture. They looked stunning. Then I look at the man they are with. Why is it some men look at the lady they are with and they think to themselves, "She looks amazing! I'm going to put on my best slides with black crew socks, a stained pair of cut-off camoflague shorts, a sleeveless shirt showing off my favorite metal band and my bushy arm pit hair, and then top it off with a grimey ball cap turned backwards. I'll even prop my favorite pair of sunglasses on the bill even though it's night." This was the majority of men who were paired with an elegantly dressed lady. There were some men who took some pride in their image. What has happened in society where it is an accepted norm for a man to put zero effort into his image, especially on a date? Why are the ladies putting up with this? I'm sure the immediate answer is "he's got a big, thick wallet." But if that's the case, couldn't he afford basic clothing that look presentable? I'm about to turn 51 in a few days. Maybe I'm just a grumpy old man who's starting to say, "Back in my day..." Yes, I need to just mind my own business and worry about myself. I'm only sharing a lamentation about the decline of gentlemanly presentation. Thanks.
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I can totally sympathize with your vent! Earlier this year my wife and I spent a few weeks in Sicily. I had this romantic notion that Sicilian men dress in style on daily basis. Instead, I saw men of all ages wearing sneakers, puff jackets and hoodies. Only on rare occasion did I see a distinguished elderly gentleman strolling down the street in a suit and leather shoes. That's quite sad..
Anyone buy anything from Coofandy?
I stumbled across this brand on Amazon and I'll start by saying that they're CLEARLY a cheap Chinese brand and some poor children are working their fingers bloody in a sweatshop to make this stuff. I get that. Problem is I really like a LOT of the stuff they have to offer and I've ordered several things for the purpose of experimentation and finding out what I like in person and what looks good on me, what combinations I can make, etc. As you can tell from my profile, I'm new to the scene so I'm still figuring things out and spending $100 per shit will take me forever to do said experimenting. With Coofandy, I can get 4 or 5 shirts for that price. Hell I even bought a linen suit from them as well as a couple of sport jackets. Anyway, I'm trying to find out if anyone else has any experience with them and knows about the fabric/build quality and longevity of the garments they sell. So far, they seem almost too good to be true, but maybe I just don't have a discerning eye? Appreciate the help in advance!
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I was able to get a several seersucker cotton shirts for $15-20 a piece in several colors under trademark Alex Vando. The still sell them on Amazon. I'm quite happy with the material, it's light and breathable, the colors are not bright (as I like it), they need no ironing - just hang it up to dry after washing, and give it a few gentle tugs along the torso and sleeves. The only downside is some of the stiching isn't straight, but in my case it's in places that can't be seen. You can return if you don't like the stitching.
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In cooler weather, my style is somewhat similar to the right image - sports jacket over turtleneck, henley, or sweater, depending on weather. I didn't know it was called "American Beatnik".. 😊
What’s Your Top Three
Like many enthusiasts, I have accumulated far more watches than I could ever wear regularly, yet these three have quietly distinguished themselves as the ones I reach for most often. The Tissot Chemin des Tourelles is my choice for formal occasions, offering timeless elegance and understated refinement; the Bulova Marine Star provides the perfect balance of professionalism and versatility for business casual attire; and the Seiko (Pepsi) diver remains my trusted companion for everyday wear, valued for its rugged reliability and enduring character. Each represents a different chapter of my life and wardrobe, proving that a thoughtfully chosen watch is far more than an instrument of time—it is an expression of purpose, confidence, and personal style. If I were limited to only three watches, these would be the collection I would proudly wear for years to come. Given the same categories, which are your top three watch choices?
What’s Your Top Three
3 likes • Jun 16
My main 3 watches these days are 1) Orient Bambino - 38mm champagne dial, markers only, blueued hands 2) a Casio AW80 - a beater for travel which also keeps track of multiple time zones 3) a Casio Duro (Pepsi bezel) for beach and watersports
SeerSucker Saturday!
Took advantage of the Hot weather this past weekend and broke out the Linens. The chance to wear Seersucker was too good to pass up.
SeerSucker Saturday!
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Nice combo! Are those seersucker cotton pants and a linen shirt? In Miami heat I rely on a similar combo - bright white linen-cotton pants, color-striped seersucker cotton shirts and loafers, or sandals when ir gets really hot. Nice classic watch! I wear classic watches almost always 🙂
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56 yrs old male, married, living in Miami Beach FL. Primary Patent Examiner at United States Patent and Trademark Office. Major hobby: Jazz Piano

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