I used to live in the DR, I have a woman and a daughter there. I currently live in the USA. In the USA I am constantly rejected by employers and women for having something that is kind of like Aspergers's syndrome. I had three women who had all given me their numbers at a dance venue over the last couple weeks all introduce me to their boyfriends tonight in California. People know me in the DR and I could be a country club member there etc. I know that in the DR I can enter a training program for Quala or ABInBev etc with their residency card and can quickly at least equal the part time job salary I make in the USA. I have to watch for people using me there more, but I am not treated like I have a disability there.

I know it can't teach you dating skills, but you could train yourself positive thoughts such as "I can get any woman I want". The downside is I think this could be unethical and dangerous. It could end up with you seeing central booking for being too aggressive with women.

I ran into Sasha Grey (LOL I know) at a bachata class and I did not get a photo because she was on a date with some guy at the time. It also mattered that no one else there was asking also.

I am building the list (yes, I know I wont be able to act on the list until I finish fixing my IG, don't fret on that, I am not gonna make that mistake). I am interested, however, into any available list you can share for me to start envisioning it. I am moving to the Bay Area next month so that is my target timeline to get my IG up to a decent level and I would like to have a list already compiled so that at this time I am ready to act on it.

Started a Tinder profile this year, got 5000 matches so far I thank 50% of it to the "fix your ig" crash course here (my Instagram is @brenogpc). Before, I had just 1 match a day, at best. Now, not only the number of matches increased, but the quality of girls increased a lot. The numbers are nice, but in practical terms that's 1-2 dates a week. Not more because you can't manage, and it's too personal to be automated/delegated. It's been sustainable, but not scalable as doing photoshoots or events. Also, it doesn't improve your life as networking does. So, ideally, you're going on dates just for fun, not as the main asset on "time investment" terms. Ask anything you wanna know about profile, texting, and logistics.