Have You Ever Faked It? Why Do We Pretend? 🎭
And I'm not just talking about Orgasms 😇.. but also those moments when you: - Nod along in conversations about topics you know nothing about - Laugh at jokes you don't understand - Say "Yeah, I'm familiar with that" when you've never heard of it - Pretend you love your job when it's slowly killing your soul - Posting happiness on social media when you actually feel like crying - Act confident in situations where you feel completely lost We've all done things like this. But here's what nobody talks about: Every time you fake it, you're not just lying to them. You're lying to yourself. You pretend to be someone you think they'll love instead of risking them seeing who you actually are. You fake interests, fake enthusiasm, fake being okay with things that bother you. Result? ⚠️ Relationships built on a foundation that isn't real. ⚠️ You lose touch with your real preferences, real values, real dreams. ⚠️ Frustration, inner conflict & anxiety. So you end up exhausted from the performance AND still not getting the connection, success, or respect you were performing for. Here's what I've learned: The people worth having in your life want your authenticity. They want to connect with a real human. 🙌 So.. What if instead of "fake it till you make it" you tried "be real until you heal"? This week, try this 🌱 - Instead of faking it, ask yourself: What am I trying to prove? - Instead of pretending, get curious: What outcome am I attached to? - Instead of performing, question: Whose approval am I chasing? Of course, this is also an encouragement to fill your "Feminine Power Tracker" - when you gain awareness, you win 🔥 ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️Every time you fake it for someone else's comfort or chase rewards that aren't meant for the real you, you're trading your authentic satisfaction for temporary approval—and you're the one who pays the price when the performance becomes your prison. ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️