"Unsolvable" Problems 😥 Here's What Actually Works (Science-Backed)
Ever notice how your biggest breakthroughs happen in the shower, not at your desk? There's actual science behind this, and it's called the "bed, bath, and bus" experience... something I learned studying psychology that completely changed how I approach problem-solving. Here's what happens: when you're forcing yourself to figure something out, your brain is in this intense, focused state. But the magic actually happens when you step away and do something completely mindless... taking a bath, going for a walk, emptying the dishwasher, or yes, even having a quick orgasm (one of my personal favorite ways to recalibrate when I'm stuck 😉). Your brain shifts into what's called a "diffuse mode," and suddenly those "aha" insights just... arrive. This is feminine power in action. Our power unfolds when we stop forcing. When we trust the process. When we create space instead of pushing harder. This whole concept of stepping back and trusting... it's at the heart of what we do in the Feminine Embodiment Program. Learning to trust your intuition, letting go of what you can't change, balancing that feminine and masculine energy. (And if you're realizing you have a pattern of always forcing and never allowing? The Shadow Work Challenge coming up is for you.) So here's what to do next time you're stuck: Think of a problem you're dealing with right now (or the next time one comes up): 1. 📝 Write it down. Get it out of your head and onto paper. 2. 🙌 Let it be. Create distance between you and the problem. 3. 🫥 Step away completely. Depending on how big the problem is, you might need an hour, a day, or even a week. 4. ♾️ Do something mindless. Let your brain relax and wander. 5. 🌱 Come back to it with a fresh, relaxed mind. Let's share some stories.. Can you remember a time when this actually happened to you? When the solution showed up the moment you stopped trying?