"The greatest skill you can develop is the ability to stay in a great mood in the absence of things to be in a great mood about." Love this quote from Alex Hormozi so much. Finding the gift or the opportunity in every challenge will get you to your desired goal or emotional state so much faster than indulging in a negative emotion. 💪💥🤩

Just a quick reminder that our February Dating Re-Entry call is coming up soon, and I really encourage you to join us live if you can. For this session, we’ll do a guided contemplation exercise to help you envision your life with your ideal partner. This will help create awareness, soften resistance, and reconnect you with your own inner wisdom before taking your next steps. These contemplative practices are powerful because they help shift things internally—and that’s where real momentum begins. Looking forward to being with you on the call 💫 Dessi PS: This is for Inner Circle members (Premium Tier). Please join here if you wish to upgrade.

Hi everyone, Quick reminder that our January Dating Re-Entry Call #3 is tonight right here on skool (check the calendar for the link) 🎉 Note: If you have Premium Membership, you are welcome to attend. Here’s what we’re doing together: 1) Wins from the past week Big or small: if you went on a date, took any step (updated a photo, sent a message, said no to the wrong fit, got back on an app, went to an event), it counts. We’re building momentum. 2) Walkthrough: Online Dating Essentials Kit I’ll give you a guided tour of all the resources inside the Online Dating Essentials Kit so you know: - what to use first - what to skip for now - and how to apply it without getting overwhelmed 3) Open Q&A / Live coaching Bring your questions, your stuck points, your “is this normal?” moments, and any screenshots/mini-scenarios you want help with (profile tweaks, messaging, timing, mindset, boundaries, confidence...etc.) See you tonight! Dessi

What is your favorite type of date?

👉 What would future-me thank me for doing today? You don’t need to do everything today. You just need to do one small, intentional thing that makes the next 7 days easier. Choose ONE action below (or post your own): - Connect: Send one thoughtful message to someone you’re curious about - Refine: Make one small update to your profile (a photo, a sentence, or an answer to a prompt). - Clarify: Journal for 10 minutes on this question:“If dating felt calm and aligned, what is one thing I would do today?” - Regulate: Do something today that helps your nervous system feel steadier before you take action (walk, breathe, stretch, look at a picture you like or listen to a song ...). LMK, what is one small action you can commit to that future you will thank you for?