Not my normal angle, but… What’s a goal you haven’t set yet? Not because you don’t want it… But because there's a part of you isn’t sure you’ll follow through this time. It’s interesting, isn’t it? We don’t just struggle with achieving goals. Sometimes we avoid even naming them. Because once it’s real… there’s a risk. - A risk of not doing it. - A risk of stopping halfway. - A risk of proving that little voice right. So instead, we often keep it vague... “I should get fitter.” “I want to feel better.” “I’ll start soon.” No pressure. No commitment. No chance of “failing”. But also… no real movement. I've noticed sometimes the biggest shift happens not by setting a bigger goal… It’s being honest about the one you’ve been quietly avoiding. And instead of asking "Can I stick to this perfectly?" Try asking “Am I willing to stay with this… even when it’s not perfect?” Because resilience in goal setting isn’t about getting it right every day. It’s about staying in it even when the wheels might be falling off. What’s one goal you’ve been holding back from fully committing to… and why? Sometimes just naming it is the first step forward.

I’m so grateful for my team to help me get up on the dance floor recently, which I miss so much. It made my night

Unfortunately our scheduled resilience chat is cancelled just for tomorrow. Back to normal next week.

Not every “healthy habit” actually feels good. Some of them just look good. You know the ones… - The intense workout you push through even though your body feels wrecked - The “clean eating” that leaves you constantly hungry or thinking about food 24/7 - The early mornings when you’re running on empty - The routines you stick to because you feel like you should… not because they’re working for you From the outside, it all looks disciplined. Consistent. Impressive even. But on the inside? You feel flat, tired, or slightly out of sync with yourself. I’ve learned over the years that real health isn’t about ticking boxes or following what everyone else is doing. It’s about paying attention to how things actually make you feel. More energised… or more drained? More calm… or more wired? More like yourself… or further away from it? Especially as our bodies change, what worked before doesn’t always work now. And forcing yourself to stick with something just because it’s labelled “healthy” can actually take you further away from what your body needs. For me, this has meant letting go of the idea that harder is always better… and getting more honest about what actually supports me. Tell me, what’s a health or fitness habit you’ve done in the past that looked good on paper… but didn’t feel good in your body? And what did you learn from it? I really want to shift our mindset away from “doing what we should” and start doing what actually works.

When people hear the word “mindset”, they sometimes think it just means thinking positively all the time. But as I've said before, resilience isn’t about pretending everything is fine or forcing yourself to be upbeat when life feels hard. Over the years, I’ve learned that mindset is actually a set of skills you practise. And like any skill, the more you practise it, the stronger it becomes. Here are a few mindset strategies that have helped me stay resilient, especially when life has thrown challenges my way: 1. Ask better questions. Instead of asking “Why is this happening to me?”, try asking “What can I learn from this?” or “What’s one small step I can take next?” The questions you ask shape the direction your mind goes. 2. Notice your inner voice. This is a big one for me! We all have that little voice in our head. Sometimes it’s encouraging, sometimes it’s not so kind. Learning to notice it, and gently challenge it when it’s being harsh, can make a huge difference to how you cope. 3. Focus on what you can control. There’s always a lot in life that’s outside our control. But there are also small things we can influence. Bringing your attention back to those things helps you feel less powerless. 4. Break challenges into smaller pieces. When everything feels overwhelming, your brain can go into shutdown mode. Taking things one small step at a time helps your mind settle and makes progress feel possible again. 5. Practise perspective. When something goes wrong, try asking yourself: Will this matter in a week? A month? A year? Often that little bit of perspective helps calm the emotional storm. These aren’t big dramatic shifts. They’re small mental habits that strengthen your resilience over time. I’d love to hear from you… tell me, what’s one mindset strategy that helps you stay steady when life feels challenging?