Just want to share why i haven't been so active lately. I know i don't need to do this, but i feel like. My grandfather has just been moving to an elderly home. Which is great for him. He enjoys, but unfortunately his stepdaughter is the "responsible" person for him. She doesn't really care about him.. His new room almost empty and she said all the time, nothing fits anymore. Well i have been crying for 3 days, calling my brother, who is on a holiday, calling with the other family members and i decided i am going to take the responsibility for my grandfather. I wasn't even allowed to visit him, ofcourse i did that. I went there, i asked his permission to enter his house and today i brought him things he wanted. I came in a house which is almost empty and things he wants are hard to find. Much is already thrown away, even things from my family and postcards with stamps of a 100 y old. My grandfather is 92 almost. Yet right now i feel like his mother, needing to protect him from what is done to him. He was so happy to see me today again and we unpacked the things he had packed in. So Now real Life has been asking my full attention. He is my only ancestor alive right now, i am his only granddaughter and here i am. Caring so much that i had not really slept for 3 nights. Today made everything good, i will sleep good, cause i know he has the things he likes. Reminding him of his life. Like a album with pictures. It was quite a process, but i am following my heart. I've been told 2 times, if you follow your heart, it will never lead you astray🙏 I must say i already feel the effects of following my heart and taking care of the old man❤️