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New passport wallet
Just got.my new passport wallet in just in time for my next cruise.
New passport wallet
3 likes • Feb 26
Nice. I got something about that size from Pikore, not as nice a cover, but I was surprised the item came from... Ukraine. Yes, the country being invaded by you-know-who. Mailed from there. Complete with Ukrainian customs declaration and Ukraining post label.
Gentlemen, time to brag a little 😎💪
Since joining RMRS, what’s the biggest thing you’ve learned, achieved, or gained? Could be style, confidence, money, connections, anything that’s made you a better man. Drop your wins below 👇 Let’s inspire each other and celebrate the progress we’ve made!
1 like • Feb 24
More modular outfits. Even changed my portrait. :) I used to go with no headcover, but I've started wearing baseball caps (but not plain trucker ones, no logo, more hook-n-loop patches to customize, i.e. tactical ones), pageboy / newsboy caps, and recently acquired a beret, will be testing it out this week. Started wearing scarves / bandanas, bolo ties, and other accessories. Learned to shop a few bits of milsurp for a different look. Use belts to accent or divide color zones, different jackets, shirts, and so on. Add them together, and I have hundreds of combinations. I need some sportcoats and blazers soon. :) I am more comfortable with myself, as I am no longer "fat".
Which outerwear looks sharpest for cold weather? Pick ONE.
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Which outerwear looks sharpest for cold weather? Pick ONE.
8 likes • Jan 26
I personally don't like puffer jacket or coat, reminds me too much of Bibendum (yes, that's the Michelin Man's real name). Out of the other 3, and I have all three, I think I prefer the long coat unless you need to reach your pants pockets quite often. :D
WINNER for the "Turning Point" Challenge 🥁🥁🥁
Gents - this challenge was a blast! We had so many transformation and turning-point stories shared, and every single one was inspiring in its own way. Seeing you guys show up, reflect, and take action is exactly what this community is about. Now… for the winner 🥁🥁🥁 🏆 WINNER: @Sean Kavanaugh Sean’s turning point started with years of feeling limited by his size — wearing looser clothes to hide, tailoring only for length, and cycling through “progress… then back to old habits.” Then life changed the trajectory. He stepped into a new chapter, started carrying himself differently, and eventually hit the real wake-up call: About 18 months ago, he woke up with his knees hurting and decided, “Enough is enough.” He committed to keto and consistent workouts — and that kickstarted not just weight loss, but a complete style evolution. What changed for Sean: - He’s down 75 pounds, with another 15–20 to go - Fit became the priority — not “whatever works,” but “what actually looks sharp” - He rebuilt his wardrobe intelligently (thrift + resale + tailoring) as his body changed - He leveled up so much that in December he bought an off-the-rack suit that only needed a hem — not a full reconstruction And the best part? He didn’t keep it to himself. He posts consistently, tracks his progress, and credits the community for helping him feel more confident in who he is — and where he’s going. @Sean Kavanaugh — we're proud of you! Everyone else: keep those stories coming in the community feed. This is how we build momentum — one decision, one upgrade, one win at a time!
WINNER for the "Turning Point" Challenge 🥁🥁🥁
6 likes • Jan 23
Congrats, Sean.
The "Turning Point" Challenge (CLOSED - Winner Announced)
Alright gents - we’re kicking off a fun challenge starting TODAY. We often talk about leveling up our style. But the truth is, no man decides to level up just because he bought a new suit. He buys the suit because he first decided he was done playing small. We all have a "Line in the Sand"—that specific moment where the old version of you no longer fit the man you wanted to become. Today, we’re kicking off a 3-day challenge to honor those stories. This isn't a "who looks best" contest. This is about the Turning Point. Whether it was a promotion that felt out of your league, a breakup that forced a reality check, or the day you became a father and realized you had to lead by example - we want to hear about the moment you stopped cutting corners. HOW TO JOIN (Super easy) Drop your story in the comments under this post. Use this quick format: 1. The old you (What did "average" look like for you then?) 2. The moment (What was the specific wake-up call?) 3. The shift (What was the very first change you made?) 4. The result (How are you showing up differently today?) Optional: Feel free to attach a "Before" photo to show the physical side of that internal shift. HOW THE CHALLENGE WORKS - Challenge will run for 3 days (starting today until Jan 19th) - Post your story in the comments of this post (not separate posts) - Our team will personally pick the winner at the end - Winner will be announced next week Monday Jan 19th - Winner gets a surprise gift from Antonio 🎁 WINNERS WILL BE PICKED BASED ON - Detail and quality of your comment (70%) - Thumbs up from others (5%) - Paid members will have plus points. RULES & LIMITATIONS - Must be Level 5 or higher to win - Free shipping (USA only; forwarding addresses accepted) The floor is yours. What was the moment you decided to level up? Let’s hear it below. 👇
The "Turning Point" Challenge (CLOSED - Winner Announced)
6 likes • Jan 20
This is a... two or three year journey. The me in teal was October 2023. At the time, I was about 280-290 lb, prediabetic or diabetic, which was starting to affect my mobility. My health hit rock bottom in August 2024, when my doctor refered me to a gastroeneterologist, who noticed something was wrong with my liver (apparently, I had jaundice). CT scan was inconclusive. Then a strange paralyzing shoulder pain and nausea forced me to the ER, then admission into the hospital where I spent 4 weeks, AND a laproscopic surgery where they corrected a bunch of problems near my liver and pancreas... and removed my gallbladder. (The shoulder pain was an infection causing spasm of the diaphram muscle pinching the nerve that also goes through the shoulder, or something like that) Over the next year, I lost over 100 lbs. My pant size went from 44 (sometimes 42) to 34 (or 33), and my current weight is about 175 lb (it was 280-ish). I am watching my diet, but at least I no longer have that roll of blubber around my neck. And my drastic body size change forced me to revamp my wardrobe completely. I had to retire all of my old jeans and other pants, and most of my shirts (I used to wear 18.5 neck) had to be donated as well. I was on extremely limited budget, so I developed some extreme bargain hunting for my wardrobe (I often buy milsurp, where I can find $5 shirts and $10 pants) as well as Amazon clearances (where stuff sometimes go for less than $10 each) and cheaper Internet-only vendors. But I have followed the wardrobe formula: different pants (different materials, different colors, different shades), different belts, different shirts, different jackets, different neckwear (if any), and occasionally wear a cap or hat just to switch things up. I also picked up several pair of glasses as a part of my wardrobe. Believe or not, the glasses was the most expensive item I was wearing... at $30 (well, I was wearing a smartwatch that did cost me $70, but you can't see that). And I was inspired by joining this community many months ago. I know I wasn't a long participant, but I was inspired by example and by fellow members. So I hope in turn to inspire and encourage others. You can change your style and life if you want to. And we will be here to cheer you on.
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Kasey Chang
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@kasey-chang-7832
Hi, I am Kasey! I'm a jack-of-all-trades, with interest in scifi, romance, Star Trek (my name is in the Star Trek Encyclopedia, really!), military.

Active 31m ago
Joined Jan 20, 2025
San Francisco, CA, USA
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