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Sometimes a man has to do what a man has to do
I don't have a dryer in my little tiny apartment so I took my sheet outside to dry it on this windy and warm Midwest day. Did I get some odd looks for doing this in a downtown public park? Sure I did but I also have a clean sheet.
Sometimes a man has to do what a man has to do
Which One Are You Going to Be?
A lot of people are quick to tell you their sad story. How unfair things are. How “unlucky” they’ve been. How “traumatic” their life was. How powerless they are to change anything. That’s why they lose. Because playing the victim might make you feel better for a moment… …but it never moves you forward. Winners don’t operate like that. They don’t look for handouts. They don’t wait for pity. They don’t ask for sympathy. They take what they have… …and they win with it. Remember this: Some people will have it easier than you. Some people will have it harder than you. Either way… It has nothing to do with what you’re capable of doing with your life. So what are you going to do? Keep wasting time complaining about how unlucky you are? Stay stuck in that story forever? Or take what you have… …and run with it? It’s your choice. The world doesn’t need more victims. It needs winners. Which one are you going to be? ~ Andy Frisella
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This is great advice for people who have never really been a victim of anything or had any real challenges. However this could be horribly destructive to a victim of, let's say, sexual assult, or domestic violence. Sometimes just surviving is the win. I know this kind of thinking has been incredibly destructive in my life.
Poll - Time to dress!
Gentlemen, I am curious to know who much time you would typically take to dress on your work day. For me, it is 20 minutes at least nowadays. Before me leveling-up on my style, it was under 10 minutes because I used to mindlessly grab whatever was easily accessible.
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I am grateful to have my papaws valet which I use religiously. So a less than 10 minute is easy to get because I set it all out the night before. I stopped planning outfits day of after ending up in an all grey fit because I was in a bad mood 😂
Pairing a white T shirt
In what ways would you pair a white T shirt stylishly? This is a color which should flatter all skin tones and matches with all neutral colors and earth tones. I don't think a white and white monochromatic look would look sharp. especially on men. I have seen many ladies pull it off, but of course that is a different genre of dressing.
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A white tshirt can replace a white shirt in most if not all casual suiting.
Reading Is Leverage
A large percentage of the population never picks up another book when they finish school. I want you to consider this... If you were taught how to read... You literally have access to an unlimited amount of information. Information that can sharpen your perspective. Information that can help you build skills. Information that can teach you valuable lessons. Information that can save you years of trial, error, and frustration. ...and you choose to let that opportunity go to waste? Reading is leverage. The knowledge, information, and perspective you can get from a single book can change the outcome of your entire life... IF you apply the lessons. I'm not any more intelligent than you or anybody else. I've just committed to reading 10 pages of a book every day for the past 25+ years. What would your life look like if you made the same commitment to yourself? Because I promise you this... The time you'll save... The roadblocks you'll avoid... The mindset you'll forge... ...and the skills you'll develop... Will all help you build your life into a story of greatness. It all starts with picking up a book and reading. Choosing not to is no different than being illiterate. Remember that. ~ Andy Frisella
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@Ijaz Jalil this is a pretty good list but I would replace Atlas Shurgged with James Joyce's A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man and if you don't want to read Lolita (which is totally a reasonable move, I finished it and am not better for it) I would swap it Finnegan's Wake also by Joyce.
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