Building a Confident Sit & Stay (Even With Distractions)
In this video, I’m working Ollie and Sandy on sit and stay in public — with squeaky toys. Real-life distractions. Real confidence building. 🧠✨ Here’s the key most people miss: Confidence is built by balancing easy and slightly challenging reps. A lot of handlers will get a solid 3-second stay… and then immediately try for 30 seconds. 😅 That’s where dogs start to struggle. Instead, think of stay like a confidence ladder: 1️⃣ Make it easy. Short duration. No distractions. Quick success. Reward. 🎉 2️⃣ Make it slightly harder. Increase one variable — duration, distraction, or distance. 3️⃣ If they succeed — praise and reinforce. 🥳🐾 4️⃣ If they struggle — make it easier again. Then bounce back and forth. Easy → Slightly harder → Easy → Slightly harder. That back-and-forth pattern is what builds stability and trust. 💛 When you’re progressing, remember the three D’s: • Duration ⏳ (how long) • Distance 🚶♀️ (how far away you move) • Distraction 🎾 (what’s happening around them) Increase them gradually — not all at once. If your dog breaks the stay? That’s feedback, not failure. Lower the criteria. Help them win again. 💪 Keep sessions short. Keep the game fun. Pair success with positive reinforcement every time. 🎉✨ When dogs feel successful, they grow confident. When they grow confident, they become reliable. And that’s how you turn a few seconds of “stay” into a rock-solid behavior — even with major squeaks happening in the background. 🐶🔊 Training isn’t about pushing. It’s about setting them up to win. 🐾 👇 Now I want to know… What’s your dog’s kryptonite? What’s the hardest thing for them when it comes to holding a stay — distance, distractions, excitement, something else? Let’s talk about it. 👀💬