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Social Heartistry

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3 contributions to Social Heartistry
Intro
Hi all, I’m Nick - I live in Melbourne, and have for most of my life. I was attracted to this community because I recently (maybe about 6 months ago) broke up with my long term girlfriend, and want to find better, more congruent ways to meet a future partner than the dating apps. I am fairly socially confident but have always been a little nervous talking to women, especially directly, and have feelings that I am inconveniencing them or bothering them or what not. Because of this, I have always seemed to meet my girlfriends through friends, and it is my goal (hopefully with your assistance) to broaden my horizons a little in this respect. Thank you for having me, and I look forward to learning,
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Hi Nick, The exercises are so powerful and look so innocuous, but they can really help you to loosen the barrier between you and the world, so when you do have that moment (and often it is just a moment) when there is someone you know you should speak to, you can overcome that barrier and self doubt in yourself and take action and initiate a conversation. These days I think women find it refreshing when men are able to be in their truth, and talk to them. Check out the part of the course called 3 balls which I think covers a lot.
Hello, I'm here!
Hello there fellow social masters of all things social. My name is Alex, I was born in Romania but grew up in Canada from a young age. Currently living in Montreal, but likely for not too much longer. I had a very religious upbringing but once I moved out, I got to be social for the first time in my life. I was attending social events, toastmasters, improv classes, I even did standup comedy once. Before all of this I was basically a basement dwelling kid who played video games all day. Similar to John Cooper's story in his book, I was naturally learning through play and self-expression, until I unfortunately came across The Game, and suddenly believed there was some special way you had to be. I wasted quite a bit of my life learning a million different things that I had not needed in the past. After a recent layoff from a job I had for 10 years, I met John in Budapest and noticed how much we had in common as far as our histories and understandings, so I was excited to see what kind of people he brings together in this community.
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welcome Alex! "Expectation creates hesitation" is the term John uses. Yes, I've heard of timeleft, seems to be filling a need out there with folks. Reminds me a bit of couchsurfing meetups which I've found super interesting people go to.
Hello and some of my videos reflecting on the exercises
Hi Social Heartists! I'm Julian and I'm the producer of this program and also did all the videography. I did John's program about 9 years ago, and found it be beneficial and life changing and helped me to remove a barrier between me the "outer" world and be more connected in life. I'm most well known for my work in the psychedelic world and I also produced this documentary a couple of years ago. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt26922538 My main advice to do the whole program, don't skip anything! Go through it bit by bit and reflect on what comes up for you! These are just a few of my videos I shot on my iphone recording my thoughts and insights when I went through most of the program exercises in November in Tallinn, Estonia last year. With the exercise sitting on the bench saying Hello, I orginally clocked it at 15 minutes, and it was quite chilly, but I enjoyed it so much I did for half an hour!
Hello and some of my videos reflecting on the exercises
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A hello is not a formal contract!
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I did this in Tallinn, Estonia, where people are particulary insular! It was quite challenging but also amusing too!
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