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Being Real
This week we’ve talked a lot about **your own standards**. But here’s the reality… Living by them isn’t always easy. Yesterday after making a promise, I made a decision to fully switch off and spend time with my son. If I’m honest, at first I felt guilty. Like I *should* be doing something else. Working. Catching up. Being “productive.” But one of my standards is being present with the people who matter most. So I stuck to it. And in the end? We had an amazing night. It reminded me of something important: **Your standards aren’t just about work — they’re about life.** Sometimes the standard is pushing harder. Sometimes the standard is being present. Both matter. What’s one standard you’re trying to live by right now, even when it feels uncomfortable?
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@Martin Gyurko we all feel like this and a lot of the time nobody else is making us feel guilty other than ourselves. Sadly society is making a lot of us be more alone in our worlds, where we actually need to be spending more time with those we love and care for. Keep talking and sharing with others, you got this
Friday!
A day of catching up and a couple of appointments. The shirt, Perry Ellis The jeans, Daniel Cremieux The shoes, Astroflex Chukka The scent, Visionaire Michael Malul The watch, AVI-8 Bell 1 The hair, by me Make it a good day.
Friday!
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Some days I hate being an adult
So as many know, today is St. Patrick’s Day and know of my appreciation of marching in the various parades around New Orleans. This year, there is the AWCI Convention in my back yard that is happening today and tomorrow and as the local rep, I was asked to participate. So no block party and parade for me today, I’ll be answering questions about screws for the next 6 hours. At least the 1/4 zip is a shade of green. Sláinte Y’all. The shirt, Travis Matthew The 1/4 zip, Peter Millar The pants, DKNY The boots, Florsheim Chelsea The scent, Our for Greatness Neo The watch, Mason The hair, by Holly Make it a good day.
Some days I hate being an adult
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Well done
Put the laptop away and create your first Win
Modern work rarely stops on its own. There is always another email. Another message. Another task waiting. Good fathers learn to draw a line. At some point the laptop closes. The phone goes down. And attention shifts where it belongs. Work deserves commitment. But your family deserves presence. Be disciplined enough to give both their proper place. What wins have you had this week and what is going to be your win today?
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Stupid weather
After discovering I brought home an unwanted companion on my trips this week, slept in to defeat the head cold, or at least try to cut it off at the pass. Starting my errand a bit later but I’d rather be sad than sorry. The shirt, Sunspel The shorts, Daniel Cremieux The shoes, Clark’s The scent, Xerjoff Torino 21 The watch, Tissot The hair, by me Make it a good day.
Stupid weather
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nice classic there
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Jon Cooke
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I help men who feel stuck or disconnected go from quiet frustration and burnout to feeling proud, calm, confident and achieving without therapy

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