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4d •
Clearing physical space to make mental space
I’ve always been creative and hands on. My garage has been my sanctuary. Whether it’s working on bicycles, tinkering or maintaining vehicles or projects with my welding skills. I like to bring creativity and art into my practical projects around the house. The physical space for this work has been cluttered and neglected with the addition of two children. A few months ago I finally got some gas for my welder so I could make a new gate. I brought the kids out that weekend. We changed the oil in the cars. We cut steel with a band saw. We made a frame for the gate. We fucking melted steel together! They were in awe! It made me realize I needed to clear this physical space to allow my children into this creative world and get myself back into it. There’s something about the focus that comes with these tasks or projects that gets me into a zone I can’t seem to find elsewhere. Long story longer the space has again become cluttered in the months since the gate project. It often feels overwhelming when I look at it and I allow myself to further neglect it. So this afternoon and tonight I took in the clutter one piece at a time with the same focus and energy I put into my creative tasks. I didn’t get it completed, but it looks a hell of a lot bet and I feel a hell of a lot better. And I have space to change the oil in the “race car” as our kids call it and maybe even get into a little art project with some wine barrel hoops I’ve been hoarding for years this weekend. I guess what I am trying to say is I won today! Small steps lead to big changes. Take that small step to your next big win brothers!
15d •
MONDAY MENS CIRCLE FOLLOW-UP
Guys we just closed out another round of connect and reclect and this one had a particular amount of grit and pith to chew on. If any man needs any extra support right now or was left feeling raw or "hungover" DM me, DM Scott, or post in the group here. We've got your back, and are happy to help you move through any heaviness or struggle. in full certainty, Aaron Moon.
3 likes • 15d
Tonight’s conversation was heavy. I’m feeling lighter because of it. Thank you for the space.
1 like • 19d
I’ve been ashamed of America ever since I’ve been able to think rationally. Yesterday was an exclamation point. I don’t know what to say. I just came home and hugged my children. I can only continue to try and manifest the world I hope humanity can thrive in. As I tell my kids, be the example, not the reason. Love hard and live strong.
24d •
Roll Call - Intense Weekend
Hey guys. Appreciate everyone joining. How is it out there? Been a few intense days with my lady. Remembering all of you men who have added your vote for victory by joining this community has kept me at a very high level of accountability and skill as well as kept me in my practice and humbly connected to community here in San Diego and my mentors. And for those of you who have not introduced yourself hit this link. https://www.skool.com/men-of-valor-inner-sanctum-3419/introduce-yourself?p=1c27585c Enjoying the full moon with some friends and a fire tonight and will ad your name with blessings should anyone have a request for aid in this way - give me your favorite fire GIF -
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I feel there are certain times those terms are suitable. My wife and I have been together over 20 years and have learned what we need from each other. There are certain things she brings to our relationship as my lady that she doesn’t need to bring as my partner. Same can be said for me as her man. And I think her and I would both agree that terms of ownership can be fun under the right circumstances.
1 like • 22d
I wouldn’t necessarily say that needs change with circumstances and time. I would say that different circumstances require her and I to show up for one another in different roles. Sometimes she need the hyper masculine “man” and sometimes I need the effeminate “woman”. Other times we need to act more as a team and partnership setting aside or letting go of things that the other roles may not have space for. I will say I do feel that being her man, or her being my lady is all encompassing of the roles we play for each other based on circumstances or needs at any given time. I guess after reflecting on this, she is “my” lady and I am “her” man and we understand what that means for one another at any given time. Does that make sense?
Aug 26 •
🐺 BROTHERHOOD ROLL CALL - INTRODUCE YOURSELF!
Every man here is on a mission. Time to see who's in the ranks! If you are reading this and your'e new here go ahead and drop Your Intel: 1. Location + Vibe: Where are you based? What's your scene? 2. Current Battle - What challenge are you conquering right now? 3. What Lights You Up? What's most alive for you right now? 4. Your Command Center: Photo of where you operate (optional but powerful) **Brotherhood Protocol:** After posting YOUR intro, go and recognize 2-3 other brothers whose stories resonate with you.
2 likes • Aug 29
John Payne - Napa CA - atypical father and husband according to societal norms Currently battling the balance of being present as a husband and father while struggling to figure out my identity in this new chapter. Watching our 4 year old daughter do jiu jitsu lights me up. Watching our son’s growth through speech therapy lights me up. Existing in the space we’ve built as a family lights me up!
1 like • 26d
@A Matthew Bausch pleasure to meet you and hear a bit of your story. I was in a serious motorcycle accident 5/6/12. Shattered my fibula, fractured my tibia, fractured my pelvis, broke my back, multiple ribs and was unconscious for an unknown amount of time. I was uninsured. I was able to do a small amount of PT because I befriended my surgeon and others within his practice. I realized although there are certain physical limitations to my recovery for obvious reasons, the majority of my recovery was and still is mental. Our mind is stronger than our bodies. Pain is relative. Keep crushing it!
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