We start the 10 Day Magnetic Love Reset today in 10 minutes! If you’re ready to stop blocking love and start feeling more open and grounded in connection, you’re welcome to join us. Here’s the link to get in: https://www.magneticlovechallenge.com/reset see you there!

I'm curious as to what is your biggest challenge right now? what is your focus and what is your biggest goal? I'm creating content and would love to know how I can help!

Hey team, hope everyone is doing super well. I shared this in VIP asw but I don't know where the question fits best, so please bare with. Hoping someone can offer me some advice here.. I have been conflicted forever about HOW to reach my tribe, and I'm still kind of working that out on some levels. But last week I finally quit my coorporate day job to focus on my art full time (this program, amongst other healing practices has helped me come to that decision, feels fantastic) and during the spurt of energy and confidence from that move I somewhat spontaneously posted to my followers on IG that I wanted to offer monthly free group support calls to other artists who want to do the same and take that big leap... I also said I would be launching private coaching programs for artists as well, which is something I've been feeling drawn to doing for a long time. This may be a luxury problem, but I did not expect 30+ people to hit me up about the group calls within a couple hours haha..! Extremely exciting of course that so many want to be part of it, and they've been hitting me up with BEAUTIFUL messages but suddenly I got struck with a "hold on, how would that work...could I even handle that?" type feeling.. Is it just my good old perfectionist tendencies creeping up on me here perhaps.... Or nerves... Not sure. I think most of the ppl contacting me are looking for a group therapy type place to discuss freely and vent and get advice from eachother, kind of like our smaller support groups are here where everyone speaks, rather than me fully "teaching" classes, but Im not exactly sure. Just wondering if you guys reckon 30-50 ppl is too big of a group for that kind of activity ? Im trying to grasp how to make it feel inclusive and social, but STILL offer guidance without giving cult leader vibes lol. If it were 10 folks I wouldn't be spinning out, but names still keep coming in now. Honestly had no idea how many creatives in my sphere were struggling with the same stuff as I, and all though its fantastic news I just wanna make sure now to not overwhelm myself, and honor their needs as well, within the framework that I would be moderating those calls pro bono. I have told everyone I will start an email list and reach them that way when it's all up n running... Grateful for any insights on how to softly move forward here. Also wondering if you guys think that ANYONE should be able to join these sacred support calls or if there should be some "terms and conditions" such as you should be willing to share your experiences with the group if you join..? Or is that too much pressure... Thanks guys! Appreciate you loads. JX

I ran a live event in London this last week I spoke for 7 hours a day 3 days in a row With no planned content whatsoever I hot seat coached people, ran guided meditations and taught ideas And for the first time in the last year… I had no nerves whatsoever I was excited and looking forward to it leading up to it Why wasn’t I nervous? Does it mean I don’t care as much? Is this too good to be true? I believe that learning to trust is really a “rep game” where you allow the moment to be and your nervous system begins to regulate in the “unknown” I just got into the unknown over and over again with other live events prior in the year until my identity began to shift along with my nervous system I’ve also allowed the space and the people to pull out of me the content and ideas So the EGO doesn’t have to control and figure it all out The ego is what wants to control… to avoid pain or feel inflated Magic happens when I surrender the egos desire to control And instead trust the divine or God to flow through To be honest… Its not me as AARON DOUGHTY doing ANYTHING Therefore I just show up and allow the space and the divine to flow through The divine is in the driver seat and my job is to allow and get out of the way To get to this point though… I had to have the courage to step into the unknown over and over again This meant at times feeling the fear… and doing it anyways And eventually my body began to relax in that “unknown” energy Same was true for having vulnerable conversations I would express how I really feel… When as a kid it felt not safe to do so As an adult I’ve had to feel that same fear… and then express myself anyways And the more I’ve done it… the easier it gets and the more I “trust” Trust is not something you need to “learn” to do Trust is a natural state of being Trust is allowing what is And allowing something greater than the ego YOU to flow through The more you trust this unknown energy… the more you wire your nervous system for more love, connection and growth

did you have to be "good" growing up? and did being "good" mean abandoning yourself? did it mean saying yes when you feel NO? did id mean being "perfect" or always having an answer? did it mean getting approval or validation to feel "safe" or enough? what where the conditions growing up to getting or receiving "love" these conditions are normally "conditional" and a result of believing love wasn't something you got just for being growing up I had to walk on eggshells and gain the approval of my ex step mom... this led to playing a subconcious game of proving my worth and being the "good" person who fixes people and situations this patttern also attracted people who I felt I needed to "fix" it wasn't until I became aware of this pattern that I began to become free and that meant embracing my DARK side... expressing how I really felt... and not being attached to outcome or easing the other persons tension not being afraid to be "the bad guy" for setting boundaries or saying NO letting people work through their own stuff instead of coming to the rescue to fix (enable) todays self inquiry is one to hopefully begin the process to free you from the subconscious patters of who you believe you myst BE to receive love and what can you EMBRACE on the other side of it? share your answers below and read what others say! on my way to Europe right now on the plane and thought I would post this for fun!