Welcome Jessica and Naomi — we’re so glad you’re here. 💫 Please take a moment to read the Community Agreements and add a quick “I agree” there.Once you’ve done that, head over to the Introductions chat and share a little about yourself — and take a moment to meet your fellow travelers along the way. There’s no right way to introduce yourself. Curiosity is enough.

Hi all I was wondering laying here in bed thinking a problem that I have very much so. The ability to tell my wife what I am into sexually. I know myself I have a very hard time talking about what I want to try or what I am into with her. I am for some reason able to talk to other friends about what I am into or what I would like to try and see if it will work as for into kinks or wanting to try swinging. Three years ago days just before we got married I was drinking and drunk. I called up a friend of ours and asked them how they do it. As in how do you guys get into the swining lifestyle. How you guys keep together. She told me she was completely honest with my buddie and told him this is what she is into. We had about a two hour conversation about Days later my now wife asks me about the conversation I had with our friends. I told I don’t remember much about it at all. So she tells me about the conversation I had with our friends. I told I was sorry I know I can come to her and tell her what I am into but for some reason I have a hard time talking to my wife about. I still do have a hard time talking about it but I am very open about with other people about the kinks I am into. If anyone likes to talk about there kinks or what they are into I am very much open kinda guy so pm me anytime

I went to services at the Center for Spiritual Living today. It’s not my usual Sunday rhythm, but a friend I wanted to spend time with asked me, so I said yes. The music was great, and the speaker was dynamic and timely. What stayed with me was a simple idea: how hard it is to change anything when you can’t yet see outside the box you’re in. I realized how often relationship uncertainty isn’t about not knowing what we want. It’s about trying to decide from inside a very small view. When you can’t see beyond the relationship box you’re in, uncertainty can start to feel endless. I know that feeling—the push–pull of wanting to leave and wanting to stay at the same time. It’s exhausting, and over time it can wear down your trust in yourself. One of the first questions I ask people when they come to me is simple: Can you see and imagine having the relationship you want? Not how to get there. Just whether you can imagine it at all. When the answer is no, that’s not a failure. It’s information. So I’m curious:Where are you wanting to say yes, while still not being able to see what saying yes will change?

Welcome in — I’m really glad you’re here! To get the conversation going, I’d love to hear a little about you: - Where are you joining from? - One fun fact about you (keep it light — there’s no pressure to be deep) - What brought you here? A sentence or two is plenty. And if today is a listening day, that’s okay too. You’re welcome to read along and jump in when you’re ready. I’ll start us off in the comments. — Deborah 💛

Hello everyone! I’m truly grateful to be part of this amazing community. Looking forward to learning, growing, and connecting with like minded individuals on this journey. A big thank you to the admins and team behind this space your efforts in building such a supportive and inspiring environment mean a lot. 🙏 Let’s grow together and make something great happen.