Hi all I was wondering laying here in bed thinking a problem that I have very much so. The ability to tell my wife what I am into sexually. I know myself I have a very hard time talking about what I want to try or what I am into with her. I am for some reason able to talk to other friends about what I am into or what I would like to try and see if it will work as for into kinks or wanting to try swinging. Three years ago days just before we got married I was drinking and drunk. I called up a friend of ours and asked them how they do it. As in how do you guys get into the swining lifestyle. How you guys keep together. She told me she was completely honest with my buddie and told him this is what she is into. We had about a two hour conversation about Days later my now wife asks me about the conversation I had with our friends. I told I don’t remember much about it at all. So she tells me about the conversation I had with our friends. I told I was sorry I know I can come to her and tell her what I am into but for some reason I have a hard time talking to my wife about. I still do have a hard time talking about it but I am very open about with other people about the kinks I am into. If anyone likes to talk about there kinks or what they are into I am very much open kinda guy so pm me anytime

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