When the Queen of Swords enters the chat, emotions evaporate. When triggers threaten your emotional stability, lean on this energy. Hard. They call her the Ice Queen, for good reason. She knows the truth: she is not her emotions. The Ice Queen has the ability to *examine* her emotions and the cause, then *decide* how she's going to respond. She doesn't immediately react; she has far too much self-control for that. But she doesn't control her emotions by suppressing them either. She masters her *mind* where she has all the power and authority; emotions flow naturally from there because that's how the brain works. Elisheva’s Retreat aims to help guide trauma survivors into the Garden via: ✧ Belief Restructuring ✧ Nervous System Regulation ✧ Neuroplasticity Trauma rewires the brain. I've spent the last three years heavily focused on rewiring my brain. I went from crying and shaking uncontrollably when triggered, even with a system pumped full of depression and anxiety meds, to not needing meds at all and being unshakable. My healing journey began on May 31, 2022; my story continued. Now, I'm strong enough to go back into the fire and help others extinguish the flames consuming them. I want that level of security for others. I've got it down to a science, and I created this community on Skool to break ground. Idk what's next, but I'm here for it. And that's everything. The beacon is lit. The gate is open. I do not ask that you worship my fire; I'm handing you the matches and standing guard while you build your own. #TendYourWell #TraumaInformed #tarotfortraumarecovery #narcissisticabuseawareness #relateable

An unsolicited 'You're welcome' is a textbook example of a bid for covert control of an unspoken societal contract. It is 100% okay to respond with, "That's a narcissistic move. I don't want anything further to do with you." When the Queen of Swords enters the chat, emotions evaporate. Lean into that energy. Hard. Shut that shit down immediately and get out of there. Playing mindgames that usurp your agency is malicious. Run. You don't owe them an explanation. If you can't just cut this person off, start planning an escape. I'm not qualified to help in those situations, but there are people who WANT to help you. Look into it. You are worth saving.

Got some nerve, huh? That's a spectrum I travel too. High-five, sis! 🤪😘 Evening Check-in with Spirit 1 Currently. Six of Fire: success, recognition, self-esteem 2 What led you here. Seven of Air: awareness, caution, consequences 3 Cause and Effect. (coming soon) Ten of Water: family, love, blessings 4 Perspective. The Dreamer (0): beginning, believing, protected 5 What's the vibe? Knight of Air: intellectual, determined, motivated 6 Integration. Four of Fire: prosperity, contentment, celebration 7 Is the toroidal energetic flow clear? The Lovers (6): Relationships, emotions, choices Bottom of Deck. Transformation (16): realization, life change, liberation If this resonates with you, baybeee! The boat has arrived for you, all you gotta do is get on board. Commit to the journey. You are finally starting to see what is possible after months and years of self-improvement work. You've developed an arsenal of tools, most notably discernment, that will serve you well. Happily Ever After, how ever you define it, is just around the bend. It's all fine and well to have reasonable goals, but when you dream... DREAM BIG. When we have all these 3D physical and 4D time constraints, why on earth would we place those same constraints on our 5D landscape. It's limitless. BELIEVE. Your emotions are regulated; your mind is sharp and clear. How's your faith? Your Spirit? Are you really gonna keep pretending you're some small, insignificant thing? pft This is a time for reflection, yes, but also a time for celebration. You are birthing an entirely new timeline where your dreams are not to be restricted, and you will pursue your goals with ALL the audacity. Get stupid with it. If faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains, imagine what being absolutely delusional about your capabilities can do. "You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden." - Matthew 5:14 Stay the course, practice gratitude, and know that victory-however you define it-is already written into your story.

You are one of a kind. Act like it.