Think you’re “losing passion” for hockey? Read this ASAP!
Do you think guys like Macklin Celebrini or Connor Bedard feel fired up about hockey every day? I made this video for a player who told me: “I think I’m losing my passion.” And what made it worse is he is not lazy at all. He still shows up. He trains hard. He does extra work. But lately the rink feels flat. Extra shots feel like homework. Training feels like a job. Points are not coming. The coach is not giving him the chances he feels he earned. And it starts to feel like all the effort is not paying off. Here is the truth. You do not start hockey because you love early mornings, bus rides, or video sessions. ou start because it is fun. Then you get serious. AAA. Juniors. College dreams. Pro dreams. And the “spark” fades. That does not mean hockey is not for you. It means the newness wore off and you entered the real part. The biggest myth that cooks players is this: “If I really loved hockey, I should feel motivated all the time.” Motivation is a weather report, not a compass. It swings with sleep, school, confidence, ice time, stress, and life. So when you feel flat, your brain tries to create a story like: “Maybe I do not love it.” But those heavy moments are not proof you are weak. They are part of the cost of chasing a meaningful goal. The real danger is the flat phase. Same rink. Same drills. Same feedback. Same grind. Most players do not quit because it is impossible. They quit because it becomes ordinary and repetitive. And that is where separation happens. The skill that gets you through is not more hype. It is frustration tolerance. How many honest reps you can do while it feels annoying, uncertain, or disappointing, without bailing on your standards. When you build that skill, discomfort turns into information. Bad games become feedback. Flat weeks become a test of your routines. You run the upgrade loop: Struggle. Pay attention. Adjust. Improve. Repeat. That is how confidence is built. Not by feeling good every day, but by proving to yourself you can handle hard, learn from it, and come back better.